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AF due yesterday, BFN. Any stories of hope?!

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funnylittlekaty · 28/10/2014 17:43

Just poas, the biggest fattest clearest negative you ever saw. Af was due yesterday and I do have achy tummy but I had cramps when v early with ds. Anyone have a bfn then a bfp later on? Or should I call it a day with the hoping and have a sorrow drowning wine?

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northernmummeh · 28/10/2014 17:45

Loads of hope. Even with a first response still got bfn 3 days after AF was due. Finally got a bfp a week after AF was due

Hyland · 28/10/2014 18:02

Stay away from the wine lol
I've been trying for almost 3 years and was due on today and also a big fat negative :(

Not only do on wine just a glass of wine but I have a family trip to Alton towers Thursday and no closer to knowing if I should miss out on the rides, which I would happily do for the right result but don't want to holdback only to then come on :{

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funnylittlekaty · 28/10/2014 18:10

Thank you northern. Fingers crossed. I had a glass of wine last night in a bloody minded I'm bound to be if I've been daft enough to have a drink tempting fate sort of way, but am so hoping it was an early false negative. Don't want to build up my hopes though when I've had a very clear no. Have you got any other signs?

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funnylittlekaty · 28/10/2014 18:11

Sorry. Last question was for hyland. Mumsnet fail right there

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AlpacaYourThings · 28/10/2014 18:14

I tested negative for 9 days after AF was due. Finally got a positive on day 10. Turns out I had ovulated late.

Fingers crossed for you, OP.

Hyland · 28/10/2014 18:15

Embarrassingly gas smelly, very attractive not the kinda problem I ordinarily suffer from and also white creamy discharge

Hyland · 28/10/2014 18:19

I am inpatient at the best if times ... 9 days or so of negative would be torture ... As always I just want a simple yay I'm pregnant AT LONG LAST or no new cycle on it's way and then I'll put a positive spin on it by enjoying some roller coaster rides Thursday

It feels cruel that I've waited 3 years to fall so to be in limbo and not know either way after waiting the silly two weeks has just added to my annoyance

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funnylittlekaty · 28/10/2014 18:20

Thanks Alpaca. Here's hoping. I'm varyingly (is that a word?!) feeling sick, windy (par for the course with me!) and crampy. And apparently prone to making up words. My boobs feel fine though, damn them. Am going to try again with fmu on Thursday if no af by then. Sigh.

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HopefulSmile14 · 29/10/2014 15:10

I've got bfn 3 of them but I'm not due for AF till Friday :( all prego signs are messing with my head

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funnylittlekaty · 29/10/2014 21:32

Argh me too! I poas again tonight. Bfn but still no sign of AF. Going to wait til Friday now....

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HopefulSmile14 · 29/10/2014 22:06

I tested tonight too and still bfn :( times dragging I just wanna know if AF is coming or not

AlpacaYourThings · 29/10/2014 22:11

Your symptoms sound similar to mine before I got my BFP.

yellowsnownoteatwillyou · 29/10/2014 22:21

AF was 3 weeks late am always on time but bfn all thru the 3 weeks.
14 month old is sound asleep just now.

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funnylittlekaty · 29/10/2014 22:55

Thanks everyone. Here's hoping for a quiet day tomorrow on the af front. Going to try and not think about it tomorrow...it's sending me a bit nuts!

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HopefulSmile14 · 30/10/2014 05:48

Me too hopefully when the other half comes back off his stag do Sunday I have some good news for him fingers crossed girls I want that bfp

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funnylittlekaty · 31/10/2014 07:29

5 days late now...fmu...another bfn. Facing facts now but I wish AF would hurry up...my cycles shot to pieces now! X

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funnylittlekaty · 31/10/2014 07:35

Haha just arrived! Careful what you wish for. That's me out. Gutted. Massive good luck to everyone else. Here's to next month.

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HopefulSmile14 · 31/10/2014 09:59

AF hasn't came but bfn

AlpacaYourThings · 31/10/2014 21:47

Sorry to hear that funnylittlekaty Sad I hope next month is the lucky month for you.

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HopefulSmile14 · 31/10/2014 23:04

AF arrived I'm out

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funnylittlekaty · 01/11/2014 09:47

Oh no hopeful! So Sorry. Here's to a bfp for us all by Christmas. Have no idea when I'm ovulating now though! I'm going to try for 3 times a week through the month and hope for the best. It's stressful isn't it?!

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wildfire613 · 01/11/2014 13:54

Slightly disappointed myself. Last time I got a bfp (even though I mc'd 3 days later) with fr on the day after my period was due. DH and I went on honeymoon this month and we were both hoping for a bfp. AF due today. Poas last night and bfn. Figured it was not morning pee so might be wrong. Poas this morning, bfn. Now I'm torn between having a glass of wine tonight or waiting another week in case AF is late or test is wrong. I really thought we could be bfp. Same symptoms as my first bfp. Tender boobs, itchy/painful nipples, constipation (never been in my life).. :-(

Gillian1980 · 01/11/2014 14:14

Aw, wildfire it's so disappointing getting a bfn isn't it. It's really early days yet so don't give up hope for a bfp!

And if you are pregnant one glass of wine won't hurt :) and you could always make it a spritzer to make it less alcohol.

wildfire613 · 01/11/2014 14:20

Yeah it. Is. Been scanning the boards and still really confused. One girl said she had discharge at a nipple yesterday in her very early pregnancy. That happened to me last night. Never in my life have I had any discharge since this would be us still ttc#1 after Mc. And albeit, I said wine but I prefer vodka. Nothing like a good bloody Mary lol

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