TTC

[Anon24]

Hi.
I had a mmc in July this year, we have been TTC since.
Af is due to arrive in 5 days. For the past 4 days I have been feeling very very sick.
I don't want to get my hopes up but what do u think??

[HopefulSmile14]

I was TTC but when I did conceive I miscarried which made it my 3rd mc :( I'm getting prego signs again but I've taken 3cheaps tests but bfn I feel rreally gutted bit AF is not due till Friday what do I do :(

[Tazxxxxxx]

Hi anon, sorry to hear your stressed, its coz ure horemones are everywhere, im the same hun!! First 3 months is really hard, i know how scared you are because of everythin that has gone on, when do u see your midwife? Nothing that i can say that will make u feel better about mc. I have scary horrible thoughts too and all i can do is pray and keep positive; mother nature is the best midwife inthe world and she will decide when its right and when its wrong. And this time it right!! Plz try stay positive, keep your chin up girl xxx

[Lillady1985]

Hey taz and anon .. I'm sorry to hear your feeling so stressed and horrible anon I hope you start feeling better soon .. Try and stay positive hun your hormones settle soon I'm sending happy thoughts your way xx when are your guys appointments ?? ... Dr went ok blood was took they said it will take a week :( they also said if it's pos they need to do hormone test after to check my levels .. I was hoping they would just checked my levels given the other info I gave ... I suppose I will wait on my results then if I'm not happy contact my dr at the hospital xxx
Hopeful it maybe still a lil early to test I suggest waiting a couple of days then test again :)

[Tazxxxxxx]

Hello all, got my fingers crossed for u lillady, and i agree hopeful, too early ro test, my midwife app was at 7 weeks im now 9 weeks waitin for first scan xx

[Anon24]

Hi.
I agree it's too early to retest just yet.
I am 7 weeks, got first mw appointment next week xx

[Lillady1985]

Hey everyone ... Thanks taz I've had some bleeding now so I'm not to hopeful but it's ok there's always next month ... Oh wow hope all went good at midwifes taz and hope scan goes well xxx hope all goes well at your scan next week anon :) xxx

[Lillady1985]

Bloodwork is back and it's borderline :/ waiting on a call back xxx

[HopefulSmile14]

Lillady1985- I wish you so much luck let us know x

[Tazxxxxxx]

Hi lillady, weird how blood results came back borderline, are u now on your af?
Hows it goin anon?? Xx

[Anon24]

Hi taz
Not too bad, struggling to keep eyes open today! Need to crawl under my desk with sleeping bag! ??
Not long now until my first midwife appointment!
How is everyone else doing?xxx

[Tazxxxxxx]

Good glad your ok, ive not been great My ds has had tonsilitis and ear infections and ive got sinusitis which i cant take any medicane for at all, so ive been really suffering, with me being so ill its triggerd all sorts of paranoyer coz i was never ill when pegmant with da. Keep askin myself if baby will be ok and if it can survive with me being so poorly, just keep praying xx

[Anon24]

Oh bless you. Hope you are both feeling much better soon. I'm sure baby will be fine. I nearly constantly had a cold or throat infection when pregnant with my son and he was fine! Keep warm and rested xxx

[Tazxxxxxx]

Oh well that reassures me!! Thanks anon!! But as for resting i should be so lucky : ) xx

[Anon24]

I know it's not easy when you have a little one already to look after but rest as much as you can xxx

[Tazxxxxxx]

Will do : ) xx

[Lillady1985]

Hey guys sorry not been on i been celebrating my mums 60th ... I got a very light Af so wasn't sure what was going on ( had lights bleeds at start of a pregnancy before ) but sadly it was neg so we are going again waiting on ov ... I hope you feel better soon taz I to was poorly throught my pregnancies and carried fine .. Good luck anon at your appointment and hope you ladies are rest xx

[Tazxxxxxx]

Oh well, next ovulation here you come : ) thanks for reassuring me about being ill, im much better now anyway, bit nervous about 12 week scan but i guess thats normal, anyway some baby dust sent your way lillady xx
How r u anon? Xx

[Anon24]

I am having a terrible morning emotionally! I am at work and keep bursting into tears.. How do I explain that one to everyone who don't know I'm pregnant?.. Roll on home time is all I can say today!
Baby dust your way for next ov, good luck xxx

[Tazxxxxxx]

Awww bless you i know the feeling hun, lol , just keep ure chin up : ) once your out of the first trimester you will look back and laugh take care speak soon hun xxx

[Lillady1985]

Thanks ladies :) I know it will happen when the time is right .. At the min there's been a bereavement on his side so I'm just helping him through it ... Scans are worrying but keep positive and let us know how it goes ?? ... Anon keep your chin up hopefully this stage passes soon xxx

[Anon24]

Hiya.
How's everyone doing??? xx

[Tazxxxxxx]

Alright hun, how are you?, countin down till 12 week scan now : ) xx

[Anon24]

Hi
I'm still the grumpy mardy cow who's feeling ever so sick, tired and emotional!!lol
Iv had booking in appointment so now waiting on scan date. I think it will be beginning of dec. How long did your appointment take to come through the post? I'm too impatient!!
Good luck with your scan, is it 24th or 26th??xxx

[Tazxxxxxx]

I got my letter through the post about a week after my first midwife appointment, yeah mine is on the 24th of nov which will actually make me nearly 13 weeks. Xx

[Tazxxxxxx]

P.s im still so bloody emotional, crying my eyes out most days : ) xx