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Am I pregnant or not? Can anybody help me out please? :(

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Jadexclark · 13/08/2014 00:08

Hi all,

So, my situation is a bit of a complicated one. I'll do my best to explain.

On Thursday, I got two BFP. Then on Friday, I started spotting. Not a lot, only a little bit in cm. I thought nothing of it, because like I said, there wasn't an awful lot... Then Saturday I started bleeding. It wasn't like my regular AF, it was more medium flow than heavy like I usually am. So I just chose to believe that I had perhaps gotten false positives. The bleeding then stopped on Monday (yesterday).

But since yesterday, my 'pregnancy symptoms' have just started getting a lot more severe... I was in bed last night by 8:30 with a splitting headache and because I was exhausted (I slept 14 hours..!), my boobs are more sore, I keep getting really bad dizzy spells and the smell of cheese (in which I previously loved) now makes me want to vomit.

I really don't understand what's going on with my body :( I know nobody else will but I was hoping for some advice to see maybe whether this has happened to anybody else? Or whether anybody else could impart some wisdom?! I'm completely in the dark here and I have no clue what to do!

Thank you in advanced :)

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ecuse · 13/08/2014 00:22

Have you done another test today? Was the blood brown or red? Sounds possible you could still be pregnant?

dorasee · 13/08/2014 00:33

Sounds like you are pregnant but it could be a possible MC. However! I had BFP then a couple of days later, bled heavily like a proper AF bleed for 1 full day, booked an appt with GP who referred me to the early pregnancy unit for a scan. I was certain I had MCd. Long story short, my 10 week old boy is sleeping as I type. It was the happiest result. At this point a scan is your best option but you will have to get to 7-8 weeks'gestation for a heartbeat to be detected. Good luck!!

Jadexclark · 13/08/2014 01:13

ecuse, I haven't done another test today because I haven't had the chance to get any with work and different bits. Blood was both brown and red - it was brown to begin with, then went red and brown, then went brown again. So mainly brown...

dorasee, aww congratulations on your ten week old son :) I thought possible MC as soon as I saw I was bleeding, but I immediately thought false positives. But then, how can you get two false positives...? I'm certain that I've MC'd if I am/was pregnant too, but these symptoms I'm getting are making me think otherwise! I've worked it out that if be ab

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Jadexclark · 13/08/2014 01:14

Sorry, sent that without finishing typing!!

I've worked it out that I'd be able 5 weeks, so id need to wait another two weeks at least. :(

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Metalhead · 13/08/2014 07:45

I'm not being funny OP but you're contradicting yourself here with all your posts - on the other thread you posted yesterday about chemical pregnancy you said you'd tested BFN after the bleeding, so which is it?! Confused

Jadexclark · 13/08/2014 11:03

I'm disregarding that BFN, because after ten mins I thought I could see something but wasn't sure. It was a squinter. So I thought id wait a few more days and test again, but in the mean time start another thread to see if anyone else had anymore advice metalhead

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JustAnotherYellowBelly · 13/08/2014 11:48

I'm in the sameish boat (my BFP was the week before and had v pinkish blood) so am interested in what everyone thinks...

Jadexclark · 13/08/2014 12:14

Are you still getting pregnancy symptoms like me JustAnotherYellowBelly?
I'm so confused as to what to do next. Obviously I know I have to ring my GP, but I'm scared at what he'll say!

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JustAnotherYellowBelly · 13/08/2014 12:44

Feeling hungry constantly but feeling stupidly sick, don't know what to do with my boobs, exhausted, milk tastes off in coffee etc etc
Yep.
I was just putting it down to a hormone come-down but it's been going on a while now.
I wasn't planning on seeing the doctor as I don't know what they'd do anyway (and I spend too much time there with ongoing problems!)

Babiecakes11 · 13/08/2014 13:37

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dorasee · 13/08/2014 14:31

Such a great result Babiecakes. Have hope OP, the results can work out. I've had 3 MCs and a late term loss at 24 weeks, so believe me I can understand how much you want to have hope and how hard you are trying to not get your hopes up. This may be the one but if not, get back up on the horse-as my mum says- and try again. :-) Best of luck! I have 3 kids and it's been a journey and a half...6 pregnancies in total. So try not to lose faith if the news isn't good...it may very well be!

Jadexclark · 13/08/2014 17:34

Aww that's a good outcome Babiecakes! So pleased for you. If you don't mind me asking, what made you still think you was pregnant after your bleed?
I got a BFN this morning - a definite BFN - and I can't help but think that there is just no hope for me. I rang my doctors to see what they wanted to do and they just seemed more concerned about cancelling my app at a later date with MW (as I rang the Drs when I first got a positive and asked what the next step was and they booked me in with a MW).
So I have no idea what to do next but to just believe I'm not :(

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dorasee · 16/08/2014 12:56

You should get a scan anyway OP, just to be sure this was a MC and all residue is out. Not nice I know. :-( But get checked out and move on quickly. Try not to let this get you down. Your baby will come. :-) Look after yourself.

JustAnotherYellowBelly · 16/08/2014 18:30

OP, did you speak to anyone? If so, what did they say?
(Wondering if I should phone 111 or have a shower...)

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