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BFN and no AF

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 12:59

I know there's a thread already but it seems to be empty now.
Just wondered if anyone was in the same boat?
I'm on cd31 today, bfn and no af. 21dpo.

This is my longest cycle in the past 2 years (cant say before that as wasnt tracking). Last month was only 24 days and this month I ovulated on cd10 so expected another 24 day cycle - af on tues.
Anyone relate?

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espa · 18/02/2014 22:01

Me!

My cycle is usually around 21/22 days, give or take. Came off pill in Sept. Had last proper period on 8 Jan, thought I ovulated about 10 days later and had unprotected sex. 5 days later my period started about 5 Days early, but very light and no fresh blood. Lasted about 3 full days and by day 2 and 3 had really bad cramps and felt v nauseous. Thought this might be implantation bleeding.

Since then I've had cramps and nausea on and off, been v bloated and constipated, and just stated to feel a sore throat. Also think I'm peeing mitee but hard to tell.

Had 4 negative tests so far, including tonight. Only just started ttc but with no sign of AF hard to know when I'm going to ovulate. This week would be my second missed AT on a 22 day cycle if the previous was implantation bleeding.

So frustrating!

whenskiesareblue · 18/02/2014 22:51

Hi espa isn't the wait a nightmare?! Fx for you

treacle love that thread! It ain't over!

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 06:21

Hi espa :)

Haha I do too skies, giving up hope this morning though with BFN's again :( Whats going on?!?!

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whenskiesareblue · 19/02/2014 08:07

BFN here too Sad boo

Not very surprised really. Just want AF to arrive so we can start trying again!

Surely one if us has to have news of AF or BFP soon... Hmm

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 08:21

:(

I hope so! I'm now on cd33, 23dpo and at least 5 days late.

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whenskiesareblue · 19/02/2014 10:36

Hi girls. Just a quick update. I went to doctor this morning to get some advice and she was lovely. She said it's probably a hormonal blip delaying period. Possibly because of chemical preg in Dec. I'm having some basic blood tests done so will see what they say. She may do day 21 blood test to confirm ovulation but of course that can't happen til I have AF!

In the meantime we're back to DTD every other day as no clue when I will next ovulate.

Treacle hope your appointment goes well tomorrow - you're not out yet!

toots123 · 19/02/2014 13:00

So glad the go was nice to you!! :)

Ive given uo testing for now but will update you lovelies if af or bfp appears x

JSBNYC · 19/02/2014 15:43

Just got blood tests back as no AF since Jan 1. Have abonomaltities in iron and B12 levels. I think this means anaemia. I am really freaking out now that this could make me infertile! any advice/comfort wouoldbe welcome.

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 16:43

Thats good skies :)

I'm feeling really low today :( Don't think I can wait this out treating myself as if pregnant til next af is due :/

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 16:44

Also JSB Sorry to hear that :(

Try not to worry too much until you know more!

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 17:01

This is still goving me hope... Especially if my ov was later than my opk said.

www.babymed.com/pregnancy-testing/negative-home-pregnancy-test-hpt-could-i-still-be-pregnant

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Treaclepie19 · 20/02/2014 09:16

Ok, no blood tests, no samples. He just said "chances are you're probably pregnant and it isnt showing up yet"
Keeping my fingers crossed!!!

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whenskiesareblue · 20/02/2014 10:01

Ah that's good! When do you test again? X

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Treaclepie19 · 20/02/2014 14:04

Ill be testing every day but the doctor said gove it a week or so.

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espa · 21/02/2014 07:14

Another bfn today and no sign of AF. Not sure when to go to gp. Did go this week but it was doctor I can't stand so only mentioned my bad cramps to him as that was really what I went for. He just gave me fybrogel and sent me away. Think next time I need to see a female doctor, don't like any of the men at my practice! I keep thinking it's so long since possible conception oh can't possibly be pregnant but where the hell is AD - never been late before!

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Treaclepie19 · 21/02/2014 07:23

There is definitely still hope. My doctor seemed to think its quite common.
Saying that though, i hope i dont have to wait til my next af is due to find out.

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espa · 21/02/2014 09:48

Fingers crossed for us all - will see about an appointment next week. Today I have a horrible taste in my mouth - not metallic, more like a sick taste. Lovely!

catbus · 21/02/2014 10:33

Just looked at your test, Treaclepie. That there looks like a definite line. That's exactly what my first test this time around looked like. I doubt very much it's an evap, especially as it's pink Grin

yesnoyesnoyesno · 21/02/2014 10:37

CD36 here, normally a 28 day cycle. BFN this morning.

With DD I got a BFN on about CD28, then BFP around CD33.

This is only month 1, I can't believe how crazy it's already making me.

If this month doesn't work out, I don't want to try next month as it'd be a Xmas baby, my brother is one and hates it!

Good luck everyone and KEEP PISSING.

Boglin · 21/02/2014 10:56

Room on the boat for another? I'm supposedly due on today but nothing so far. Had a bit of CM streaked with blood last Thursday, then a little pinky CM the next day. Had a couple of blobs of stuff that looks similar to a mucus plug (sorry!). BFN on Weds this week. Pinky CM and back ache on Weds as well, nothing since, everything seems to have dried up. Boobs are slightly sore which they haven't been since my last BFP 2 years ago. Am a bugger for winding myself up thinking I'm pregnant only to be crushed when AF turns up so I am not testing again until Sunday and if still a BFN I'm just going to wait it out.

Yesnoyesno, I am the same, only been back on the TTC trail for a couple of months but I can feel it dragging me under already, I hate it, I wish I was one of those who fell pregnant at the drop of a hat!

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Treaclepie19 · 21/02/2014 11:06

Its got to be an evap catbus as was after the rime limit and negative tests since.

:( ugh. Sorry to all of you joining in limbo!

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yesnoyesnoyesno · 22/02/2014 05:14

Anyone poas this morning? Any AF?

buddhabee · 22/02/2014 07:38

Me!! Dpo 19 I usually have pretty short cycles of 26/27 since dec when started trying. No af on day 26 so thought I'd wait till 28 - nothing was throwing up and felt seasick all day on day 27 and have been feeling sick hot flushes stupid taste in mouth and everything all week! Nothing did a test of Tuesday (29) a clearblue norm one - not even a hint! Have just done a clearblue digi and NOT PREGNANT - am sooooooo confused - am I am I not?? What to do?? Confused

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Treaclepie19 · 22/02/2014 07:39

Spotting started for me last night :(

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yesnoyesnoyesno · 22/02/2014 08:22

I'm not familiar with DPO, my app uses calendar days starting from first day of period. So I guess it's 14ish days later? CD37 today so 23dpo. No AF. First time it's ever not come on schedule for me.