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First month trying.....

32 replies

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 09:40

My first month trying....only 11days till can do test feels like forever!

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 09:42

Hi Danielle - good luck! This us my first month too but no idea when to test because I've just come off the pill and have no idea how long my cycle is or even whether I'm ovulating yet! Think I'll give it another four weeks and then test if AF hasn't appeared.

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 09:55

Hi!

I had 2 full months off pill using protection then 3rd month now started ov kit and tested ovulating day 13 so approx 20th due period hope it don't come. I'm very excited/nervous!

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 09:57

Which OPK are you using? And did your cycle return quickly after stopping the pill?

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 09:59

First month it went back to normal, very lucky! I've been using clearblue, not the digital just the lines that show lh surge.
How old are you?

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 10:02

I'm 28 and was on the pill for 12 years solid. You? I'm on day 8 of my cycle and appear to have EWCM now so am thinking of using an OPK today/tomorrow. I only have the stick ones that test for LH but mine are Asda own-brand so I hope they're reliable.

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 10:19

I was on the pill for over 9 years too! Your young your b fine :) I'm 24.

Good luck! I would have 1st period so you kno ov date then start month after, it really helped me doing it this way. I think asda brand be fine, it's people pay for the brand they all do the same I think! If I am not preg next month I will prob buy tesco brand as a lot cheaper clear blue expensive!

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 10:26

Yeah,there is recommendations to wait for at least one period but I wanted to catch the 'hormonal surge' some women have straight after stopping the pill. Plus, doctors can always use a dating scan to work out how pregnant I am, ha ha! We're one week into TTC now and I'm getting those familiar aches and twinges that I used to get many moons ago that hopefully show my cycle is returning to normal.

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 10:28

All the best of luck! It's so exciting

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Beans1977 · 10/08/2013 10:33

Good luck ladies! This is my first month trying for number 2 and I'm due on 17th August so am waiting excitedly like you! x

VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 10:38

I keep going from positive to negative... At the moment, I'm positive and convinced my cycle will return quickly and I'll be pg by xmas (my goal). But other days I'm convinced we're going to have major issues even though I have no basis for that :-( If I'm not pg by xmas I will be gutted because I'm a control freak and can't cope if things don't go to plan.

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 10:41

Haha you sound like me!! After month 3 il b going mad

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Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 10:42

Thanks beans! How long u been trying x

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 10:43

Me too! You're ttc cycle 1 as well, then?

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 10:44

I'm on cycle 1 yes, 20th I will kno if cycle 1 is a yes or no x

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Beans1977 · 10/08/2013 11:03

This is our first month TTC number 2! Our DD1 is 10 months now and my AF came back 2 months ago so we will see what happens!

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 12:49

Very nice all the best of luck :)

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Writerwannabe83 · 10/08/2013 14:08

The best of luck Daniel and VJones!!

I'm newly pregnant with my first baby and me and hubby got pregnant from our first month of trying so it can happen!!

I hope it does for you too!!! Smile

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 16:46

That's such positive news! Makes me happy :) how far preg are you?

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 17:06

I think what I will find tough to accept is that we are doing everything we should be to fall pregnant and so it would make me wonder what we're doing wrong. Unless of course my period just doesn't return for ages, in which case I will just be worried and frustrated.

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 17:13

Mine was first month period so it can go normal straight away!
Because I want this so bad I am also worrying but no facts to worry, some women try for months leading into years! So brave

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 17:16

I'm the same - I'm a worrier and also a control freak so it's hard to not be able to control this. Just need to relax and enjoy, as hard as that is!

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 17:19

It will happen!

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VJONES1985 · 10/08/2013 17:27

Yeah, just have to keep positive.

Writerwannabe83 · 10/08/2013 17:46

I'm 7 weeks pregnant today, Danielle. So still early days and our fingers are crossed that everything goes to plan Smile

Danielle1588 · 10/08/2013 18:46

I'm sure it will very exciting for you :)

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