I had a lot of problems during DDs pregnancy, early on bleeding, cervix began thinning at 28 weeks, went into labour at 30 weeks and nearly lost her twice while in NICU. Coupled with severe hyperemesis, throwing up blood, being put on drip 3 times, I really don't know if I could do it again.
It's not so much the pregnancy, but the constant fear of miscarriage and early labour. I know I would spend the entire time terrified of losing the baby, I don't know if I would cope, but I can't imagine DD being an only child forever either.
Has anyone else risked a second after a bad pregnancy with their first, and is it less scary during the pregnancy than thinking about it before?