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BFP in 2013

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RedRobin1 · 26/01/2013 10:02

Hello - starting a new one as the old one filled up.....

Didn't want to start another...but I really hope this is the last thread for all of us.

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twinklestar2 · 03/02/2013 19:49

Sorry she got you red.

Fatas - big hugs and glad it wasn't an ectopic

Haven't dtd yet when - will be starting tonight.

kittykatsforever · 03/02/2013 20:05

Sorry red Sad I was hopeful aswell, she is a bitch!
Fatas glad it's not ectopic men can be so crap in these circumstances Brew for you you and Biscuit

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RedRobin1 · 03/02/2013 20:08

We are seeing a fertility specialist sunshine but. I think this months weird AF must be down to the Hycosy this month. It's the first time I have had anything like it.

It's okay winkle I am already looking forward to what Feb holds for us. I know only a few days back I was fed up of ttc - it didn't last long because I am now hoping feb is our month. Hope is a weird thing. Never fully goes away.

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BelissimaLol · 03/02/2013 20:10

Hi girls
Just popping in to say hello. Sorry a few of you are not feeling well.
Fatas glad it's not ectopic. I had the same palaver as I had a PUL and was almost kept overnight due to ectopic fears. It's odd isn't it? Once you have that fear you are almost happy to have a miscarriage! Hope DH gets his act together and looks after you.
Hope more of you join us on the other side soonGrin

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 03/02/2013 21:04

Angry at your dh fatas hope you get more sympathy soon.

red sorry af got you. Onwards to Feb.

twinklestar2 · 03/02/2013 21:24

Have dtd :)

Thingymajigs · 04/02/2013 08:26

Hugs to you fatas. Hope your DH steps up and takes care of you.
Glad AF finally turned up red. It makes sense that the hycosy could've been to blame there.
Have you been doing lots of winkling and pinkling twinkle? (I've completed forgotten the words). Grin
9dpo here and operation 'chill the hell out' is going well. I only temped over ovulation and I'm not symptom spotting at all... Well, maybe a tiny bit until I snap myself out of it. I'm refocusing my energies elsewhere. My house and finances are now organised to the nth degree.

twinklestar2 · 04/02/2013 09:12

I've only done one dtd Thingy! And quite nice it was too ;) Will go every other day till about cd20. Currently on cd13.

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 04/02/2013 10:26

Well done on that first shag of the month winkle

I'm on cd 17 I think today is ovulation day. I should be dtd to night but there is no way. Still poorly sick, I am at work but am not being very productive.

resipsa · 04/02/2013 10:40

Yikes (as I remember you), God, that sounds heart-breaking. Puts my concerns into perspective. Hope you are getting through things OK.
Sorry red. You sound positive which is a Good Thing.
Hope your DH's whisper turns into a reality wee.
Fatas - men - no more needs to be said. After I'd had my ERPC last March, DH arrived 20 mins late to pick me up cause he'd been putting the washing on. He thought that I'd thank him for it! My sac kept growing until week 9 despite there being no embryo in it; the body just didn't want to let go.
Hi kitty, sunshine, lol - hope all OK with your Ps.
Hi too to winkle, when & thingy.
Had an announcement here this morning. Colleague had a boy on Saturday. Both fine. Feel oddly just happy for her and not Envy (yet).

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RedRobin1 · 04/02/2013 11:29

Res I feel oddly happy for all pregnant friends popping the babies out. I don't know once the babies come out I am no longer envious. It's more seeing those bumps that seems to affect me.

Yay on your first dtd winkle Smile

when poorly shags are the worst. dh had 'no snogging' rule as i was all bunged up. Really hard to get turned on! Hope you feel better soon - have a hot cuppa soup.

Thingy - not long to go....any symptoms at 9dpo?

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Kittenkatzen · 04/02/2013 11:40

Hey lovely ladies, just thought I'd pop over and wave my ttc pompoms for you all (so to speak!)

fatas hope you're doing ok, very glad it's not ectopic

Thanks and Wine for everyone caught by AF, hope she buggers off for you all soon

really hope to see lots of you all over on the grads fred very soon xx

Mrsblackcar · 04/02/2013 11:46

OMG - BFP arrived on our first month of TTC

All the signs were there but i could not believe that i wasn't symptom spotting

So due date of 13th OCtober - bring it on being very careful for the next 8 weeks!

Appologies to all those ladies who haven't had good news this time, i haven't back read all the posts

resipsa · 04/02/2013 13:37

Congrats Mrsb! Not jealous here at all Wink.

Hi kitten.

twinklestar2 · 04/02/2013 13:50

Mrsb - this is a thread for long term TTCers.

Wish you all the best anyway.

LittleMissSnowShine · 04/02/2013 14:13

fatas - glad you're not facing an ectopic, wishing you all the best for next week. Hope you're able to evict DH from sofa!

Thingymajigs · 04/02/2013 15:30

Congrats MrsB. Smile
No red, nothing really. I'm trying to avoid symptom spotting as I'll find out by Sunday anyway. I've even put on my comfy bra so there's no way I can imagine breast soreness this time. No doubt by midweek I'll be back to reading everything into a slightest twinge.

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 04/02/2013 15:38

Congrats mrsb I'm insanely Envy have been trying since April last year.

The cold plods on but feeling a little better. Dh's best friend moves in to tonight, he is worried about imposing but I am thinking great free child care. will just have to dtd in my study

LoveLaughingLots · 04/02/2013 15:42

Hi Everyone, first time poster and TTC#1, it's going rather more slowly than I'd expected, and I've been stalking the TTC forum for a while, so thought I'd just join you all! Keen to share the experience...

LLL x

weechops · 04/02/2013 15:44

Congrats mrsb. :) just so you get the right support, we may not be the right thread for you. As twinkle said, we've all been ttc a long time and are hoping to get our bfp in 2013. Why not have a look on the antenatal threads. All the best x

Dh has sent his cv to this company I told you about so we will see. Fx! I think he'll be home for ov around feb 25th anyway if trips stay the same. God I hope so!

LoveLaughingLots · 04/02/2013 15:45

I think I may be posting in the wrong read! Been TTC since September 2012, just read that this is a thread for long term TTCers, not sure I've been trying long enough to be here! Lol I'm happy to move along to another thread, let me know!

LLLx

weechops · 04/02/2013 15:45

Hi LLL welcome to the crazy crew ;)

Thingymajigs · 04/02/2013 15:59

Hi LLL. Smile I don't think there's a minimum time limit for TTC to be here. No one would want to join us if that was the case! I think I introduced myself on here after 6 months of trying. Where are you in your cycle right now?
I really hope he gets the job weechops. It'll make the TTC a bit easier if he's home more.

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RedRobin1 · 04/02/2013 16:03

Hi love I love your name :) welcome aboard.

when will you be doing the 'shove everything off the desk' move in the study? I have always wanted to do that ;) have fun!

thingy sore boobs sound promising, fingers crossed and hope the clock ticks by soon for you.

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twinklestar2 · 04/02/2013 16:14

Welcome LLL!

Soz if my msg to mrsb sounded abrupt, was posting quickly at lunchtime!

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