BFP in 2013

[RedRobin1]

Hello - starting a new one as the old one filled up.....

Didn't want to start another...but I really hope this is the last thread for all of us.

[LeenHS]

Hmmm feeling disheartened. AF hasn't come yet but don't feel pregnant. All cm has disappeared, which I guess means it's I way. Bit fed up with ttc today. I miss the days when we weren't trying and I didn't have all the lows. Sorry not very cheerful. I'll rally.

[RedRobin1]

hi kitty how are you doing?

I have put the thermometer away.. I am so thoroughly fed up with ttc.

Feel like AF will make an appearance on cue . I will know by Thursday (thank goodness!) as I start spotting 2-3 days before.

[RedRobin1]

leen know how you feel - I could have written that same post. Lowest of the low :(

[resipsa]

Leen + red - it ain't over. You know the rest. Even if she comes, that day could be the day from which you date your future pregnancy. For some reason, I usually find that thought quite comforting but it might not work on you.

When how's the hotel stay going?

I'm expecting a smiley face later; on both OPK and DH, I hope

[LittleMissSnowShine]

res - yanbu but tbh im not surprised - she does sound like an old bat tho!!

[resipsa]

Oh dear - got smiley on OPK but not DH (just cause I accidentally knocked his bad knee and said sorry but obviously not quickly enough) so now on DTD tenterhooks as he's been known to be a complete bastard, I mean a bit childish and refuse to co-operate when in a bad mood in the past. I'd better play it right or my luck's out! Eek!

[weechops]

Oh res looks like you'll be sucking up big time then to your dh manchild for tonight! :) Fx he gets over himself and does his duty.

My dh shitty job strikes again. Ok I know the weather isn't under their control but still, pah! All flights delayed so there will be a backlog come friday, and he may not get home til Saturday. No eggy getting fertilized this week then! Was a long shot anyway since I ov Sunday.

[resipsa]

Ah, wee and there's me moaning when he's in the next room. It must be really hard

[Haylebop12]

Hi ladies. Can I join? TTC number 2, on cycle 8. Am currently on the 2ww (roughly 6dpo) after having taking a few weeks away from mn to curb my obsession with ovulation!!

Managed to Dtd cd9,11,13, 14 ,16 and 18 so if I didn't cover it this cycle who knows what you gotta do to get a BFP round here! Not sure if I ovd as hardly any noticeable cm but that might have been down to my new approach of not looking for every little sign an just have lots of sex

Anyone testing this week (sorry I haven't read TE whole thread but its quite annoying on an iPhone)

[weechops]

Well dh and I don't really get much time to piss each other off with the way his work is :) Just as he's starting to get on my nerves, he's away again. And before I can really miss him too much he comes home. It works for us. Just not when we want to make a baby!!

[Haylebop12]

weechops I can imagine how hard that is. Tell him
To book some hol from work over your fertile week

[kittykatsforever]

Ahh wee that sucks, it was sometimes the same for me and dh as we used to both work shifts and sometimes never even saw each other awake for 4 days but I could still force him if necessary!!
Res- we once had a fight when I had smiley but I found crying worked lol just told him that because he'd turned me down that it had put another 6 weeks on a possible baby, another 4 weeks till the next ov then another 2 ww, just because of a not feeling like it or fight, he seemed to get how big timing is and manned up after that! bloody men
Red I know after so long you must feel like why is thus 2ww any different but Ive felt for sure once I was pregnant once but at the same time this time didn't feel pregnant at all and got a neg with a superdrug test at 10dpo, I even refused to send a congratulations text to my friend as she chose that day to send me her yeay I'm 12wks pregnant text! I remember those bad times, it'll be you making the texts soon !!

[weechops]

Hi haylebop Cycle 8 for me too now. Not counting from mc as it'll just upset me. Really need to think about home freezing I think for dh spermies

[RedRobin1]

Thanks kitty giving me some hope there.

wee are you OV on Sunday this weekend or was it last weekend? If not he might still be in time!

res we've had angry sex a plenty - told DH to snap out of it once as I needed a 'deposit' from his factory and told him to go sulk after he said he feels like a machine and a very used one at that!

[Haylebop12]

red I had this with DH... "You only want me for my speed"

"Yes dear, that's right now lets get on with it"

[Haylebop12]

Sperm*

[LeenHS]

I cracked and tested. BFN. Really gutted. We really did everything we could this month. Overwhelmingly gutted.

[RedRobin1]

Gutted for you leen ttc is tiring and cruel. So sorry.

[sambrads]

leen sending u big big hugs sweetie hope ur ok. there could be a chance its wrong testing with pee at this time of day test in the morning with first pee and see if it makes a difference?
red hope ur ok to and keep ur chin up easier said than done I know.
not feeling very positive today to get a positive this month either but suppose time will tell.
has anyone got any symptoms yet?
hello to everyone else hope ur all ok

[WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful]

leen sorry about the bfn, they suck.

Hi resipsa I am back home again and not only do I have access to sperm we have dtd . Operation shag more is officially back on track. although operation no booze in Jan went a bit wrong on Monday night

Cd 11 - ov expected cd17 to cd20

[resipsa]

Leen sorry. It's the worst feeling, isn't it (but you still might be too early).

when good work! And a little of the hard stuff is good for you .

Well, last night went as predicted: a row with this type of comment - performing seal (DH), donor sperm/divorce/no effort (me). DTD in the end, though.

red?

[WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful]

Well done res glad you got your seal to perform.

[resipsa]

Also said he wasn't a show pony but later conceded that probably wasn't the right turn of phrase. We didn't do it in public!

[RedRobin1]

- performing seal is classic, show pony even better. I might try those on DH next month.... or not maybe.

No news my end. Waiting for spotting / Af to commence. Def don't feel pregnant.

[LeenHS]

Wow you are all so lovely. It makes me well up!!

red I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you so much.

sam thank you! It was quite an impulse test. If AF doesn't show I'll test again but first thing in the morning.

As for seal chat... DH always says to me: "you only want me for my sperm"... I say noooooo not all. Inside I'm like, pretty much.