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BFP in 2013

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RedRobin1 · 26/01/2013 10:02

Hello - starting a new one as the old one filled up.....

Didn't want to start another...but I really hope this is the last thread for all of us.

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resipsa · 12/02/2013 21:38

when sorry too to hear of the CP date. It's hard. But I also hear what you say about (sometimes) being glad things didn't work out as they should have. I can see that DD needs us 100% focused on her at present and I'm really not sure to have had a 3-4 month old around would have suited us. That said, still wish I did!

twinklestar2 · 12/02/2013 21:50

When - sorry about anniversary date. Here's hoping we're all not waiting too long.

Thingymajigs · 13/02/2013 06:30

Thinking of you today adsum. Hope all goes smoothly and you're back home being looked after as soon as possible. Thanks
Massive hugs to wee and when. I can't imagine what it must be like. I hope everyone is being more sensitive to you now. I still can't get over that announcement at 3 weeks, so thoughtless. Hmm
red, we have decided not to do anything for Valentines anymore and I really hope DP meant that or he'll be very disappointed later. Might have to create an Art Attack style card out of random bits in the odds and sods drawer if he does produce a surprise.

Thingymajigs · 13/02/2013 06:36

Sorry adsum just realised its Wednesday not Thursday. I need to stop posting before I've properly woken up. Blush

LittleMissSnowShine · 13/02/2013 08:53

Adsum (fatas) - so sorry to hear you had mmc confirmed :( I know you were expecting it but it's really such miserable news and such cruel timing for the erpc. Wishing you all the best for recovering afterwards - I didn't find it all that sore or anything but it did take around 3 months for my cycles to get back to normal afterwards and apparently that's pretty normal so don't freak out (like i did!) if AF is completely up the left or missing in action for a while afterwards. Thinking about you tomorrow x

Thinking about you all actually Thanks

Adsum · 13/02/2013 10:03

Thank you all for your thoughts - I will hopefully be in and out of theatre early in the morning tomorrow and am just hoping there are no complications.

Thinking of you all too, with insensitive relatives, anniversaries and such - and to those who do enjoy valentines, I hope you have something lovely planned or even a nice surprise from a kind OH Smile and of course plenty of shagging to those TTC Wink x

twinklestar2 · 13/02/2013 10:25

Wishing you luck on your surgery ad.

Managed another dtd last night but we're very much at the functional stage of the month rather than the fun!

Have dtd cd12, 14, 16, 19 and 21. Will go again on thurs (bonus as its valentines day!) and then I'm done for the month!

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RedRobin1 · 13/02/2013 11:42

Will be thinking of you tomorrow adsum hope the erpc is not too painful and you are very well looked after.

winkle we did our first dtd last night too. I haven't looked at my fertility apps this month. Feeling very relaxed abt it all so far.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 13/02/2013 12:49

Yay for winkle and red dtd.

Hi littlemiss

9dpo so bored, symptoms spotting even though I know it's pointless my body loves making up random symptoms. I was burping loads yesterday and felt a bit sick. Ooh this could be good thinks I but then I got a really dodgey stomach so it's not preg related.

Sigh

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 13/02/2013 14:45

Ok I'm not bored anymore I'm crying my eyes out.

In a fit of madness I poas (clearblue one). I think I may be going crazy but I think I can see the faintest of faint lines. It could easily be in my head.

I should be excited but everytime I've see a faint positive it's ended badly. Argh.

Thingymajigs · 13/02/2013 15:04

Have you got anymore tests when? I'm trying not to get too excited on your behalf but clear blue tests are usually quite reliable.

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 13/02/2013 15:08

I'm going to get some first response ones. I keep thinking its not real it's all in your head. Then I think of how easily it could all go wrong.

Haven't had a single positive thought since poas. Sad
Really sorry to be so negative this is what we are all hoping for, I just feel like I'm about to have a panic attack.

weechops · 13/02/2013 15:09

When I agree with thingy, clearblue are good. 10dpo tomorrow you should be able to see faint line with fmu. Oh I have everything crossed!!

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RedRobin1 · 13/02/2013 15:29

when I have everything crossed for you. This thread needs a happy announcement .

Would you be able to get an early hcg and progesterone blood test done to make sure your levels are where they need to be? With your past CP history perhaps they would be able to do something. Fingers crossed this is a really really really sticky bean and that line gets super dark soon.

9dpo is still very early. I would be amazed if it was dark at this point. Give it a few more days. The waiting will be hard, but just keep faith and stay positive. Fx this is your time.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 13/02/2013 15:31

But aren't clearblue notorious for false positives?

Thanks for the crossed fingers.

kittykatsforever · 13/02/2013 16:13

Oh when bless you, first ofcourse it would be faint I've never even had a + at 9dpo and you didn't even use fmu!! I'd say that was about as dark a line at this point as you could have got! Was it one of the cross tests? I have heard some things about blue dye but I think it's when the line is thinner, is it the same thickness?
Your bound to be teary, remember how I was! you have had a rough ride but every pregnancy is different, agree frer the next step but try not to stress to much you have alot of people with their fx and here to hold your hand! Dry those eyes x

LittleMissSnowShine · 13/02/2013 16:20

when - i used clearblue with this pg at 10 dpo and got a VERY faint bfp, only tested because me and DH were going to a friend's 30th that night and I really wanted to have a few drinks but just didn't want to take the chance that I might already be up duffed. The bfp was so faint I was v skeptical but decided to stick to a couple of shandies. Tested 2 days later at 12 dpo, still v faint line. Two days after that finally got a proper bfp, tho still a little watery looking, and of course i was actually pg. I should also point out that it took the full 3 minutes for anything to appear all 3 times too, so I was on the point of binning what looked like BFN tests when gradually a v faint line started to appear. So keeping everything crossed for you.

twinklestar2 · 13/02/2013 16:44

OMG OMG OMG when, am hyperventilating here! Squeeeeeal! Mega excited! Keep is posted! Don't cry lovie xx

twinklestar2 · 13/02/2013 16:44

I mean keep us posted!

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 13/02/2013 18:22

Thank you so much for all your kind messages.

I've poas, it's positive. Shock

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 13/02/2013 18:30

That was I've peed on another stick (first response). It's definitely positive, about as positive as my stick on 13dpo with dd.

Adsum · 13/02/2013 18:38

Oh wow! when that's fantastic!! Congrats!! I totally understand the panic but... yay!! Grin

twinklestar2 · 13/02/2013 19:01

Congrats honey!

kittykatsforever · 13/02/2013 19:04

Yeay!!!! That's one strong little line at at evening 9dpo!!, this is the one GrinGrinGrin

Thingymajigs · 13/02/2013 19:23

Congratulations when! I was hoping for some good news. I'm so excited and happy for you. SmileSmile

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