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November 2012 BFP bus, part 2

570 replies

JollyJock · 11/11/2012 22:10

Hiya!

Grab a seat.

Gin and tea available.

OP posts:
nicnicw · 15/11/2012 22:24

thanks girlies xxx for the positive vibes xxx feeling a lot calmer ... i think i have accepted what will be will be if af does come over the weekend not the end of the world on cycle one my partner wont complain haveing more funn trying lol but fx if af doesnt arrive and i finally get a definitive answer ..... BONUS

kiss for you all xx god bless and hope you all have a lovely sleep tonight Smile

3peasinapod · 16/11/2012 05:46

Have an awful feeling AF is on her way!

Does any of you get pain when you ovulate?? I have been getting pains on one side each month, so for the last 2 months I have used an opk to figure if it was ovulation and got positive opks each time. This month we bd a day after the pain started, so this month I think I will try and bd on the day that I get the pain. Would love to know if any of you get ovulation pain and if so when do u bd during this?? Mine can be quiet painful and sometimes bd would be the last thing on my mind..

JellyCurls · 16/11/2012 07:08

Morning 3peas i think pain around ov is common. I get really sharp pains that take my breath away sometimes and since ttc this time i realise i cramp afterwards too. We just try and dtd as often as possible around those dates as not sure when ov actually occurs.

pinkbuttons · 16/11/2012 07:29

nicnic your post sounds v positive and sensible will definitely have to try and remember that nxt week when am waiting for AF.
3peas i also get ovulation pains we have been dtd eod the week before am expecting ov just incase and then everyday for a few days while have the pain. only my first month TTC though so not sure if this is working yet.
fx for everyone testing today. i will be testing tomorrow but not rly expecting a true result just need to POAS

frogchops · 16/11/2012 07:48

Morning everyone, did a IC test this morning.... Bfn
Surely at 13dpo it would show by now?? :-/
Af like pains didnt happen yday at all so thought she might've , well, fucked off tbh,lol.
Maybe she is on her way after all :-/

JellyCurls · 16/11/2012 08:07

Frog maybe the IC are not that sensitive, remember it ain't over till AF arrives.

About 15dpo for me, AF due yesterday on cycle day 35 but she was, thankfully, a no show Smile This morning when i got up i was really aware of my boobies, they feel sore and full. Felt really dizzy in shower too. Holding off POAS till Sunday though as dont want another bfn.

Good luck to this mornings testers, am off to hide so the witch can't find me

TinkyPeet · 16/11/2012 08:33

jelly sounds very promising for you!
frog the ICs aren't very sensitive so stay positive it's not over till she rears her ugly head xxx

Cortana · 16/11/2012 08:54

BFN here again, but no AF. TMI alert my nipples are massive I have some changes which could be a positive sign or a sign of AF.

Agreed Tinky, not over till the witch arrives. How are you this morning Tinky? Are you feeling better.

TinkyPeet · 16/11/2012 09:16

I'm not so bad thanks Hun, getting over the horrendous cold but the sickness is threatening to arrive soon! Had to decide whether or not to go throw up before the school run, but thankfully I was fine and didn't chuck lol. Fx for anyone testing xx

TakingTheStairs · 16/11/2012 09:17

Morning all. I'm super tired this morning so I'm having toast and jam for the sugar boost (bad I know). Would anybody like a piece?

Thanks pinkbuttons Blush

Fx for those of you testing. and remember it ain't over until the witchy woman arrives :)

JellyCurls · 16/11/2012 09:32

When are you due cortana?

tiggerishtom · 16/11/2012 10:33

Thanks for everyones lovely and kind words!

AF arrived this morning so I am definitely off the busSad, Wine tonight.

I will lurk about to see how everyone else gets on if that ok?

Fingers crossed for you all!

Cortana · 16/11/2012 10:39

Ah the toilet hugging stage, Tinky, you'll be offered a million remedies once that gets going. I found tea and peanut butter sandwiches helped but everyone is different.

I'm due anytime from yesterday till the 18th Jelly. My cycles can change by 5 days easily. No witch yet, I have been crampy for days now though.

Was the water hot in the shower when you felt dizzy? When I had DS I went over in anything more than lukewarm early on, could be a good sign. Fx for you, and for everyone Smile

TakingTheStairs · 16/11/2012 10:42

Tiggerish, I'm so sorry to hear that.
Plenty of wine and paté for you this weekend. It's not ideal, but now you can start to watch the patterns of your cycle and figure out what's going on with your body too.
Next month will be your month, I just know it

Cortana · 16/11/2012 10:45

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Tiggerish I think some lovely wine is needed for this evening.

Sometimes the first cycle of TTC is the hardest in that you've got all the hope and excitement fresh in your mind. Be good to yourself today darling.

Try and think along the lines of this is the first day of a brand new cycle for you. Not the end of something. Another chance for your BFP starts today. Thanks

tiggerishtom · 16/11/2012 10:51

Yes Taking that's exactly how I am looking at it, and thanks for the hugs.

Being really positive and a am pleased that a least my cycle wasn't too long either, I could have gone on a mammoth 45+ days like I used to in my younger years.

So actually strangely relieved this morning to get AF because that its was only 33 days..... I am keen to get started again! Grin

Good luck for everyone testing soon!

TinkyPeet · 16/11/2012 10:52

Sorry to hear it tiggerish stay strong Hun enjoy yourself this weekend so you can jump back on it next week xxx

TinkyPeet · 16/11/2012 10:53

N thanks cortana not allowed peanuts but I do like tea :) xx

TinkyPeet · 16/11/2012 10:54

-allergy btw not upduffness x

JellyCurls · 16/11/2012 11:36

Are you allowed peanuts if you got a bun in the oven?

Cortana · 16/11/2012 11:54

Gosh I hope so, that was the only thing that stopped me from vomiting. I ate peanut butter ever day with DS but he is 8 now and the advice may have changed. He turned out fine, but perhaps best to check if you are baking a bun.

nicnicw · 16/11/2012 12:43

hey tiggerish you get to enjoy yourself for next few days with food and drink .. but hey you get to have some more hory time in a couple of weeks !!! you could always treat yourself to some new sexy undies for fun or get your hair done !! all positive things to think about in my book !! if at first you dont succeed try try again !! but i think you should treat yourself and if the DH ask say nic nic said so .. pamper yourself and enjoy ! it always makes me feel good about myself onwards and upwards honey !!

nicnicw · 16/11/2012 12:49

SSSSSSHHHHHHHHHH due af today but no sign of her ! touch wood !! went out and bought a double pack of cbd on offer 12 pound at tesco ! not tried one though im a bit to frightened of jinxing it and wasting a an expensive test lol mmm trying to wait i did think test on monday if no signs im trying to at least hold out till tomorrow lol

TinkyPeet · 16/11/2012 12:55

Oooooh fx nic!!
Yeah ur allowed peanuts if baking a bun now, changed guidelines a while back x

JellyCurls · 16/11/2012 13:21

Fx nic come and hide with me and cortana she sill not found us yet. sssshhhhh dont tell her where we are