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P***ed Off With WTF Cycles!!!!

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wifey6 · 26/07/2012 18:18

Had a MMC end of April this year :(
Bled for 2 weeks & AF arrived bang on time..horrendous but told to expect that. So last month AF was late & I tested like mad - BFN. AF shows her ugly self on CD34 WTAF!!
Decided to ttc this month & OVed at right time & now AF is late again..HPT are all BFN & I'm finding this awful!! Getting a bit worried & more upset as its just a reminder that although I thought it was...my body is not back to normal yet. :(
Has anyone else had this happen?? What do I do??
Thank you if you have read this far.

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KickTheGuru · 26/07/2012 22:23

Why are you waiting kitty?

kittykatsforever · 27/07/2012 06:26

Af arrival, a sign of ovulation or a bloody miracle!!

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wifey6 · 27/07/2012 07:02

AF has just arrived Sad Angry
Really hoped this month would be our month. Sad Angry
I'm so p*ed off!! And we have two family days out planned for today & tomorrow & now AF has arrived late..I'm going to feel awful for them!! Sad

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Lolcbcb · 27/07/2012 07:07

Oh no hun. That sucks Sad x

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wifey6 · 27/07/2012 07:37

I feel like I don't even know my own body anymore.. All it wants to do is mess up!!

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kittykatsforever · 27/07/2012 08:40

I'm sorry wifey Sad
I hoped you would get lucky, the only positive is if it hadn't you would be thinking am I arnt I the whole time, atleast now you can go out as a family and just enjoy the days, hope you feel better soon x

lurcherlover · 27/07/2012 09:22

Exactly the same here...mmc and ERPC in May, normal cycle then now my second cycle is all over the place. I'm late but getting bfn and don't feel pg at all. A bit worried as I had spotting a fortnight ago (hoped it might be implantation, but I guess not!) - now worried that was AF for this month, although it was only a few tiny specks of blood - I never spot normally though. Just want to be pg again so much.

KickTheGuru · 27/07/2012 09:25

Point to remember is that when ttc, we don't know our own bodies. We don't know what to expect and we suddenly think we notice things we have never
noticed before...

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wifey6 · 27/07/2012 11:00

lurcher...I had the same on my 2nd cycle...random spotting & then 2 weeks later AF arrived. Feeling a bit more positive after chatting to DH (strange as that might sound). Was feeling upset & he managed to help which was nice. He always has a different way at looking at things..I guess it's because he doesn't have to go through it himself.

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KickTheGuru · 27/07/2012 11:33

wifey My DH is also always a help. He can try to take my mind off things but that's only because he can take HIS mind off it because he doesn't feel every twinge or tweak. It's not a bad thing - at least, one person in the relationship can think clearly.

I am trying to be practical and remind myself that the odds are I won't get pregnant this month - being so close to since I wasn't well. I need some practical "no symptoms" and I've not even come close to ovulation yet!! Well - should be early next week.

I don't want to get my hopes up this month. I am 100% sure I won't fall pregnant this cycle.

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