Hello again ladies.
now on fouth month of TTC after 2 losses - MC and termination after fatal abnormality detected :(. .. btw conceived first at first attempt and second time at second attempt and nothing since then .. so tried 4 times since with a one month gap to recover.
I have written down all details as have been using sticks etc since last June when we started. Ovu varies consistently from one month to the next 12-13 days one month and 20-23 days the next. I know I have conceived on either side. In feb something odd happened : ov on day 23 [latist ever] and period on day 26 [so maybe no ovu at all?], and this month [2 months later] no ovulation according to the stick and period day 28.. the months in between are consistent with 12-13 day ov and periods around day 30 ish.
First is this month to month variation in ov normal? I doesn't seem so? I am clearly worried about early menopause [am 38] or just something being not quite right. This email might sound quite sensible but I am desperate! Little bro had a baby on Sun [my little girl, which we chose to terminate should have been born last month] and have just been totally consumed with grief so not ovulating was a very unwelcome discovery.
I have made appts to see doc next week but anyone else who has experienced similar I would love to hear from you
xC