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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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penguinpenguin · 02/12/2011 15:33

Just a wee message to say hi to you all :)

I'm TTC with my partner. Came off the pill beginning of last month, have had one bleed since then only lasting 4 days (very heavy for 2 days though :( ouch). Already we're finding the BDing a bit awkward because there's a 'reason' to do it! Rather than just because we feel like it. Any tips on how to keep it all lovely?

We're both 25, i have DS (8) from a previous relationship.

Thanks guys :)

x

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SucksToBeMe · 06/12/2011 17:35

Oooooh ! Penguin, do you have any news???

LovingChristmas · 06/12/2011 21:12

Hi all I'm a newbie to this area too.

I always want to start chatting but then feel really daft as besides TTC I have no idea what any of the abbreviations mean.

I've been off the pill since march, and having regular periods (which thankfully are still short) which are on a 29 day cycle, so far I have avoided charts and ovulation sticks, but think I may start in the new year.

I feel a bit lost with it all, I'm just quite relaxed and saying if and when it happens great, but I would like a 2012 baby!

Anyway - sorry for hijacking your thread penguin.

LC x

SucksToBeMe · 06/12/2011 21:56

Can i jump on LovingChristmas band wagon? All i know is TTC and POAS. What does AF mean?

Will this be your 1st LC?

penguinpenguin · 07/12/2011 08:59

Sadly not Sucks! I am no good at waiting, I am such an impatient person and I hate hate hate waiting to test already - haven't even done one Xmas Blush

Good news though, just found out I have a full time contract for next term (I'm a supply teacher) - very happy that I can save some money! x

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LovingChristmas · 07/12/2011 10:26

Hi sucks

You know one more than me, what is POAS?

I have a DSS who's 13, but no kids of my own, have you got any? (ignore if you've previously mentioned that and I've missed it).

LC

penguinpenguin · 07/12/2011 11:49

I know POAS! It's pee on a stick... I think. I'm rubbish at remembering!x

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SucksToBeMe · 08/12/2011 06:58

Great news penguin ! It's such a relief to know works sorted for a while.!
I am getting very impatient at not being able to start TTC yet. When I look at other threads they seem very complicated with all the "AF" "POAS" and "SWI" Its nice and safe in here,!

jbadgirl · 08/12/2011 10:03

I agree sucks! It's nice having a small cluster of people to talk with, I have heard others before getting into very heated debates on here and gets quite nasty, I would rather stay out of those conversations!

penguinpenguin · 08/12/2011 12:00

jbad think it's more AIBU that you need to stay away from - I love reading them but don't often post as scared of being ripped to shreds ;)

sucks I know, very relieved. Hopefully it will get rolled on to June... fingers crossed eh.

AF=Aunt Flo (I think???)
SWI=Sex With Intent

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jbadgirl · 08/12/2011 15:11

Yes I think your right penguin, its a bit like Jeremy Kyle, look from a distance and keep your mouth shut! Lol

I like the SWI that's so funny

So we have AF, POAS, TTC, SWI so far, are there any more!!

penguinpenguin · 08/12/2011 16:42

LO=little one, DS/DD/DH/DP=darling son/daughter/husband/partner, errr trying to think of more! CM=cervical mucus, EWCM=egg white cervical mucus, BFP/N=big fat positive/negative. Will try to think of more!

It's blowing a gale here now!

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penguinpenguin · 08/12/2011 19:04

Right, stupid question -

How soon can you test? I have heard 2WW (two week wait - another!) but is this 2 weeks from OV (ovulation??? I think!) or 2 weeks from DTD (doing the deed???!) xx

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penguinpenguin · 08/12/2011 19:07

sucks just realised I didn't reply to your question (sex lives!). Finding it a bit weird - knowing that we're having sex for a reason, you know, instead of just "for fun". Will see how it goes!

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jbadgirl · 08/12/2011 21:02

I thought its 2 weeks since ovulation but who knows, when u find out let me know!

SucksToBeMe · 08/12/2011 21:27

Is anybody else buying baby magazines yet? Blush I got a spoon today with Practical Parenting and was well chuffed! I have a iPhone and have put on all the pregnancy apps. But they all want a due date Angry

penguinpenguin · 08/12/2011 21:46

Ha jbad glad there are others as clueless as me! If only it was a "oh no I'm 17 and pregnant" situation again, took my a bloody age to even realise I was pregnant. Not this time, ohhh no. Have ordered some cheap PG tests from ebay, hope they're ok.

sucks nooo cause they're soooo expensive! I look at the mothercare website though Xmas Blush. Also keep telling OH to check the price of nappies in the supermarket as he thinks they're much more expensive than they are. Not really the best time financially to have a baby.. but when is?!

What iphone apps have you downloaded? I'm trying to find a decent (free) one for tracking fertility, any recommendations? xx

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jbadgirl · 08/12/2011 23:15

There's on called p. d and it tracks periods and fertile and ovulation days, have no idea if it's accurate but I'm guessing we will see next weekend! I have bought 2 cheap tests from tesco and all the info I have found says test 2 weeks after ovulation day

penguinpenguin · 09/12/2011 10:08

Thanks fr the reply jbad :) I have PD find it a bit odd though - not sure why! Will persevere tho as its easy to read :) sorry for spelling mistakes on my phone!x

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jbadgirl · 09/12/2011 10:49

That's ok my spelling is just as bad with my phone too!

Gorgeousbubba · 22/12/2011 00:43

Hi all
Are there any positive test results?? I'm keeping everything crossed for you all x Grin

GTbaby · 22/12/2011 01:10

hello.
dito, im a newbie. been on here a while, but never posted.

i have been off the pill since october, and have two normal cycles both 28 days long. however this month is the first we are ttc our number 1.

quite excited, reading SOO much info online. kind of torn between doing lots of research now or waiting till i get a BFP, but i cant help but look!

thought i would say hello!

jennilondon · 22/12/2011 08:20

Hello all I'm new here too so wanna join this newbie thread! It did take me a while to understand the acronym here! (only understand the obvious ones)

We decided to try for a baby this oct, we dont have any kids yet. as my period is quite irregular i have started to take daily temperature to try to understand my cycle better. A good app I recommend is fertility friend mobile. They have quite a good guide on their website too which explains signs we can spot. Good luck all Smile

SucksToBeMe · 23/12/2011 08:41

Hello GT and jenni . GT,there is SO much stuff out there to read on the internet! Jenni, I'm going to put that app on my phone!
Good luck guys, I won't be officially TTC til march/april now Angry

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