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TTC after a Miscarriage - Wishing you all more baby dust than is physically possible to type!!

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Coathanger · 31/10/2005 15:33

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I wish you all every happiness and great TTC success.

Much love to all of you, you'll always be my friends!

XXXXXX

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peepee · 09/11/2005 19:12

NO, I HONESTLY DIDN'T KNOW

peepee · 09/11/2005 19:23

HELLO, ANYONE THERE?

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 19:31

PEEPEE - WHY YOU SHOUTING?????

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 19:50

Where you gone? You arresting someone? Have they been very norty?

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 20:00

Ah well I'm off to watch What Not to wear. I think they are helping men tonight so should be good for a laugh hehee!! xx

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Trix1 · 09/11/2005 21:49

Hi - is anyone there? feel like a chat - im counting the days until af is due (sunday) and wishing and praying that she does not.

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 21:52

Hi Trix! Hows trix? hehe! get it? "hows trix" hehee!!

So another tester for the weekend goodie!

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Trix1 · 09/11/2005 21:54

Hi Coathanger - are you testing as well this weekend then. Trix thats me full of them!

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 21:55

No not testing but Strike 1 is - on Saturday.

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Trix1 · 09/11/2005 21:57

The threads far too long to read. I was obsessed with these threads and have tried to lay of them a bit and try and convince myself that I am not counting the days and hours til next af but I am just kidding myself.

how long you been ttc?

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 22:04

My story is long and complicated so I will give you the 30 second run down in points:

had MC in August this year
DH wasn't very happy that I was PG in the first place but he came round and was as upset as I was.
I had hopes of trying again.
Dh decided he didn't want another. I am desperate for another (already have 3 boys).
Dh and I talked and decided to wait 6 months and see how we both feel then, that will be end of Feb.
Managed to talk DH into not "being careful" last month and BDed a number of times at very good time of month.
Just before AF was due, he found out he has a condition that greatly reduced fertility.
Was hoping to be PG but AF turned up so looks as though DH has already lost some of his swimmers
DH condition can be fixed but he hasn't yet decided whether he will or not yet.
Now very sad because it looks as though I will never get my baby.
Going to put it to DH that we ditch the condoms and let nature take its course and hope 1 little swimmer does his job - after all it only take sone

So thats my long story cut down

Hoew about you

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Trix1 · 09/11/2005 22:11

yes just ditch the condoms as you say it only takes one swimmer - good luck.

Me.

1 ds who is almost 4
3 prev m/c
last one at 4 months last new year
ttc again since then
had very upsetting and stressful year so that may be contributing to not get pregnant.

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 22:22

Aww, trix. Sorry you have had such a rough time. But you must relax and try not to stress too much. It might contribute to not falling PG. I don't think it would be the sole reason but it could make matters worse.

You need a nice holiday - I always fall PG just after a holiday

DS1 - just came back from nice week away in Scotland (all that fresh air and haggis!)
DS2 - another break, this time the New forest.
DS3 - Scotland again and more haggis!

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 22:23

Oh and the baby that didn't make it was after a holiday in LAnzarote

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Trix1 · 09/11/2005 22:27

A holiday would be nice but nothing planned for a while!

Although am going away for a few days next week but dont think the timing will be right.

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 22:29

Doesn't have to be straight away. It just seemed that the first "right time" ater coming home from my hols I fell PG. Probably coincidence but I like to think it is linked. Already planning next years holiday

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Coathanger · 09/11/2005 22:39

Well, I'm off to bed now. Stick around on the thread Trix - its good fun and very supportive too

Speak to you all tomorrow xxxx

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maddyd · 10/11/2005 08:34

Morning all. So sorry not been around latley but had so much to organise before we fly off Mon plus im so fertile a the moment that we have been wearing each other out ttcing. What fun. Got a pos opk today so will be doing again tonight, i can hardly walk. Anyway thats enough tmi

Any news from anyone, Coathanger are you due to test agin this weekend, thats come around quickly.

spub · 10/11/2005 08:46

CH isn't testing on Sat. Trix and Strike1 are! Good luck to you both!!
Maddy, PMSL at you being too sore to walk!! Go Girl!!!

mumswish · 10/11/2005 08:51

Morning everyone,

I had a really bad night last night. work really pissed me off. I've been told I'm no good at my job and how can I expect a promotion when I cant even do this job. I was starting to look for a new job but now I definatly am!! (or at least after we've got our house anyway)

Went to see another house last night. Wasnt very nice, the actually house was nice but the neihgbourhood wasnt too good and no where to park. Plus there was a tenant in there who was taking all the light fittings and carpets etc with her. So would need a lot of sprucing up. Got another 1 to see on Friday and then 2 on Saturday. one of them is the prefab and I'm really looking forward to it. Both me and DF have said as long as it's structually sound and habitable we'll be happy with it as its £15k less than any others we've looked at.

Anyway enough of me rabbiting. Hope you've all had a good evening and got a good day planned.

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Coathanger · 10/11/2005 09:14

Hi Maddyd! Ooooo, its getting close! I can't believe your holiday/wedding has come round so soon. You must be soooo excited in between BDing of course! hehee!! You go girl!! We'll be calling you John Wayne soon

Mumswish - how long have you been in your job? Surely they should have told you this in your assessment thingy the other week.

Hello to everyone else

I'm going back to bed this morning. Taken all 3 boys to school so have a free morning. I haven't been sleeping too well so going to make the most of it and go to sleep. I'll be back later xxx

Ps, Peepee and Shelly xxxxx How are you both today? Thinking of you xxxx

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HellKat · 10/11/2005 09:24

Morning all!
Maddy- Wow that came around quickly!
Mums- What about a job in computer programming or anything with comps? That way you can chill with MN all day too . Seriously though, surely they could've had a nice word with you first instead of acting like that.
How's everyone?

mygirllolipop · 10/11/2005 09:58

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mumswish · 10/11/2005 10:06

Been there 7months. I had my assesment only 2 wks ago when they said that I could be put up for promotion and then yesterday I get told I cant even do my job!! ARGH!

Oh well, the quicker we get a house the quicker I can get a new job.

HumphreysCorner · 10/11/2005 11:03

Morning ladies

Morning Coathanger!!!!!Enjoy your snooze. ((xx))

mumswish-rotten sods. I remember getting a verbal warning when I had been in my job about 2 years-I was so upset I didn't tell anyone and worried about it for months. They should have mentioned it in your assessment and not contradicted themselves Grrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

maddyd-you will be exhausted by the time you get married -It's the final countdown now-lots of luck and happiness to you all. ((xx))

Good luck to Trix1 and strike1 for testing this weekend! ((xx))

Hugs to everyone else-must attack the pile of ironing before it reaches the ceiling.

Bye for now

xxx

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