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TTC after a miscarriage - Good Luck, Good Luck, Good Luck!

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Diddle · 08/10/2005 12:28

OK, Brand new thread time. here you go girsl thinks we've waited long enough for another thread.

Fingers crossed for all of you

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munz · 09/10/2005 09:57

ch - I know at the tme it really drags as I was sooo worried and nervous i'd M/C again - getting to 12 weeks was a real milestone for me - still not fully relaxed doubt I will do until either the 20 week one/we have the baby healthy in my arms - which is sad in a way as this is my first and it's fully of worry and what ifs trying not to get tooo excited u know. counting down the months with u thou! (hope there's been no more nastiness for u on the home front.)

mads - when do u come back from florida? - fingers crossed u are still PG - have u tested since at all?

peepee- think I did about 15 tests b4 I was convinced fingers crossed for u, realy hoping and preying for u, as I told mads yesteray I got PG again straihgt away so it's v v possible that it is a 'new' PG - did u have any neg tests inbetween? - (thats how I was so certain u see as i'd have the EPU do a test which was a neg and also I did one at home which was a neg) so was certain I had no hormones left.

Trix1 · 09/10/2005 10:15

Congratulations to Diddle and Lottie

There is so much to read on the pervious threads have you both been ttc for long? Can I have a brief update on your ttc history.

Congratulations again.

I am due af next Saturday and if I get another BFN I will die with heartache!

Bewitched · 09/10/2005 10:31

Wow - there's been so much to catch up on since I last checked in here!

Maddyd - I'm so sorry to hear of your news, and hope that you don't have to wait long before some better news comes your way.

Diddle & Lottie - yeah!!!! Absolutely fantastic news! So your October predictions were right all along - how uncanny!

Trix1 - good to see you back. I've searched MN for you a few times and was worried that you seemed to have just vanished. I thought at one point that you had got your BFP, but I confused you with Flamesparrow. Hoping that you are lucky v soon. (Oh, I was Tabs BTW).

Coathanger · 09/10/2005 11:03

Morning all!

Hope you are all well!

Peepee- you had me in fits about the fire alarm! lol!! Hope its sorted now!

Maddyd - when are you off to florida - you lucky,lucky lady!

Diddle DH - I saw your post, Hun! Your right, now you have it there the stress starts. Diddle just needs to take it as easy as possible and not overdo it! I know you will look after her XX

Diddle - hope your well today, hun! Take it easy!XX

Lottie - can't wait for you to come on here tomorrow! I hope you are well too and resting plenty XX

I hope the rest of you are all fine and dandy today. Its a beautiful norning in my part of the world - I hope the sun is shining where you are too! XX

peepee · 09/10/2005 11:07

I still stink of burnt toast though.
A couple of colleagues turned up at 0800. They were not impressed. They had been out last nite on the **ss and were hungover. The noise was driving them mad.
It's all sorted now.
Peace and quiet at last.
I can listen to my Andrea Bocelli CDs now.
Nice and soothing.

Coathanger · 09/10/2005 11:18

pmsl!!! They shouldn't blame you!! THEY got drunk!! NO SYMPATHY!! Hehe

maddyd · 09/10/2005 11:30

No i havnt tested again as yet.

Im off to Florida, the gulf coast to be precise on 14 Nov and we fly back on the 28th so a while away yet. Well actually 5 weeks on Tomorrow. Am fasting today to give my self a kick start again as have been comfort eatng big time and i dont want a belly in my dress. not unless its a pg one anyway

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Diddle · 09/10/2005 11:37

you nutcase peepee fancy setting the alarm off, thats the sort fo thing i'd do

maddyd - i hope you can join us too, would be great. I wonder if you ahve lost the baby too, seems very strange that you onyl bled for 3 days. i hope you get some good news soon, doctors can be wrong.

Trix1 - brief update: Both Lottie and I mscarried in April this year, my 2nd her first. we have since been ttc and finally this month after 6 months of waiting we got our BFP's.

bewitched - welcome back with your new name, yes our predictions were scarily right, very spooky.

Hope everyone is having a relaxing sunday.

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Diddle · 09/10/2005 11:40

so excited and jealous maddyd would love to begetting maried again and in Florida would be fantastic you'll have a smashing time

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maddyd · 09/10/2005 11:50

Now ive gone and ordered some more tests and i really didnt want to do that

Yes it is exciting Diddle, i cant wait just to get out there and fully relax. Mn withdrawel may be bad though. Im really trying to focus on the wedding and not the ttcing but its always there, niggling away at me.

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Diddle · 09/10/2005 15:01

very quiet today. where are you all??

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Coathanger · 09/10/2005 15:16

I'm here!! Just been into Dover to le the boys but some things with birthday money they had left. Now have 3 very happy little men!

Coathanger · 09/10/2005 15:18

I'll try again - typing awful today!! Been to Dover to let the boys buy some things with birthday money they had

There that looks better...

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Diddle · 09/10/2005 15:29

coathanger - lets hope that keeps them quiet for an hour or two.
is DH working today?

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Coathanger · 09/10/2005 15:33

Nope! Just phoned in and told his boss he isn't working tonight coz he's got to do another (!) course in London tomorrow!

maddyd · 09/10/2005 15:52

Ive just had a sleep, am exhausted.

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Diddle · 09/10/2005 15:57

You've had a rough week maddyd - i'm not surprised you need a sleep.

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Coathanger · 09/10/2005 15:59

Good for you Maddy! A sleep does wonders! Hope you are feeling better for it. So, how are the wedding plans going? Have you got much more to sort out?

maddyd · 09/10/2005 16:05

All set and ready to go. Just need to buy a new suitcase to keep the wedding dress in and all the other wedding stuff. Ive booked dolphin swims too and dp is having a shark swim. Thought after the wedding would be good just incase

peepee · 09/10/2005 16:06

Hello,
I am home now.
Pleeeeeeeeassssssssssssse do not get annoyed with me u guys.
I just did another test. STOP thinking it, I am not cuckoooooooooooo.
Anyway, it was positive.
I have now realised that this is an obsession. I will just keep testing until the bloody hospital appointment. I need help. I have to stop, this is costing me a small fortune. I used to be normal, shopping for clothes and shoes etc.. Now I just zoom past those shops and check out the best offers on pregnancy tests. Once i suss which is the cheapest shop, I go back and buy.

Just realised that I am rocking backwards and forwards whilst typing. Dh will try and get me sectioned under the MHA if I don't stop.
Oh, by the way.. He has read this thread and others and says we are all MAD.

peepee · 09/10/2005 16:13

Maddyd, it sounds fantastic.

I got married abroad too. St Pauls Bay, a little chapel in Lindos, Rhodes. It was brilliant. I took loads out with me. My Mum and Dad carried a suitcase full of stuff, favours printed napkins, gift scrolls and fifty pebbles which I had painted every guests name on plus a little sunflower.

I was naughty. I carried heart shaped sparklers (fireworks) in my case. Thats a big no no with customs. WHOOPS. We even carried the cake.

It rained(storm) on my wedding day but we still had the most brilliant day ever.

Enjoy every minute of it. Make sure you post us some photos of the big day.
I am all excited for u.

maddyd · 09/10/2005 16:21

Peepee lol at you rocking back and forth. Great news on the test

Your wedding sounds fab, we are not taking anyone out there but will still be really special. We have a luxury catamaran that takes us for a two hour cruise to a private island to marry us. Thing id dp isnt good on boats. [pukingface]

peepee · 09/10/2005 16:25

Wow, that sounds superb. How brilliant is that. A bit unfair on DP though! Not to worry u have been thru it recently it's now his turn for a bit.

I would have liked it to be just the two of us too. DH has 2 daughters and they got really upset when we mentioned it. There was no way i was gonna have just the two of them with us so I invited others.

maddyd · 09/10/2005 16:31

Im wearing a proper wedding dress which will be a huge surprise for him as he thinks im just wearing a little summer dress

Coathanger · 09/10/2005 16:48

All this talk of weddings, and such romantic ones at that, is making me cry!

Peepee, your wedding sounds as though it was wonderful

And Maddyd, yours will be fab too.

I'm SOOOO jealous! I had a very quiet, reg office wedding. No dress, no big reception, just me and DH, and immediate family. Hope to maybe renew our vows at 5 years (if he lives to see it!!!)