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TTC after a miscarriage - Good Luck, Good Luck, Good Luck!

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Diddle · 08/10/2005 12:28

OK, Brand new thread time. here you go girsl thinks we've waited long enough for another thread.

Fingers crossed for all of you

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Trix1 · 13/10/2005 11:56

Oh how exciting for you. A BFP that is fantastic OMG you lucky thing.

What test is it - I really want to test now I am on day 27 is it too early?

Congratulations

mumswish · 13/10/2005 11:57

Trix if you want to test, then test. If your on day 27 of 28 then theres no reason not to. But be aware that if you get a BFN its not the end of the world.

It aint over til the fat lady sings (or bleeds)

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 11:59

Is it too late in the day to test now - is it better to wee early in the morning on your test?

I have no symptons although I am feeling very tired - i think i am looking for symptons

mumswish · 13/10/2005 11:59

I gotta go lunch, so dont test till I get back.

xxxx

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 12:00

i am so scared but have just relised, my last af was 16th of september and my stillborn baby was due to be born on the 19th september. this baby if all goes well obviously - would never have been created if my darling angel baby hadn't died. this makes me feel kinda good like her life was for something. am i being stupid

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 12:01

test trix test

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:07

Oh Slink, I had not read all the thread and did not know about your still born baby, I am so sorry but I understand what you mean about this baby being created - you are not being stupid at all. Even bigger CONGRTULATIONS TO YOU :O :O :O

I have no symptons really I am just desperate for them, it has been 11 months since my last m/c and I really hoped I would be pg by now!

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:07

That was meant to be

strike1 · 13/10/2005 12:08

CONGRATULATIONS SLINKSTAH!!!!!!!!

That's great news.

Fingers crossed for you Trix1

Still no af for me (cd30/31) but not going to test again till Saturday if AF stays away!

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 12:12

trix you have been a long time ttc- are you using ov sticks or temp to see when you ov?

i have used an ov microscope which you put saliva on the end and wait for it to dry and then look at it and if there are fern shapes you are about to ov. i don't know whether you have heard of them or not and they are cheap too

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 12:14

i do not think its kicked in yet, i am still shaking but i think i will buy more tests on ebay right now just to double check.

omg - how am i going to tell dp- shall i wait? he has no idea i was due for af or be testing.

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:17

Strike how can you wait until Saturday you must have great patience. How long is your cycle normally. Good luck I really hope you get your BFP.
Slink I have never heard of those, I have been ttc this time for 11 months ( I have had 3 m/c)
Ive done the ovulation sticks but not the temperature thing.

I had blood tests last week at hosp on day 21 to check that I am still ovulating, have to wait three weeks for the results.

have you told your dh yet?

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:18

Crossed threads Slink.

Have you worked out your due date?

HumphreysCorner · 13/10/2005 12:25

slinkstah-have you taken a picture yet???

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 12:28

you should try ov microscope they tell you when you get estrogen surge as it shows up in the saliva. this will tell you whether you are ov. im so sorry about your 3 mc. are you going to a recurrent mc clinc

i don't know my due date. I am such high risk of having baby early. i am scared. omg and the hospitals- i hated my last one i cannot go back there i will have to find another.

photo is took but just have to set up my webspace doh! as have changed isp recently

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:32

Sling - yes i went to the recurrent m/c clinic they found no reason for it, they did say that if and when i get pg again i would be under the consultants care.

Your last af was the 16th Sep mine was the 17th Sep - how long is your cycle normally?

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:33

Sling your due date is 23rd June - how lovely a summer baby.

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 12:38

my cycle is average 26 days. omg 23 june my ds was due 25 june 1997 and born on 27 june

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 12:42

Oh how exciting - have you told dp yet?

my cycle is 28 days not due til St so probably too early to test anyway. I dont think we did it at the right times anyway.

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Diddle · 13/10/2005 12:50

hooray slink that is fantastic, yeh tell dp, definitly. excellent news. my baby was due the 16th sept and my last af was 2nd sept i felt the same as you, it is all worth it this is beant to be

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slinkstah · 13/10/2005 13:00

i think you should test now trix - today is a lucky day.
also if your last af was on 17th you are on day 27 today ;)

i don't know how to tell dp, shall i tell him now on the phone whilst he is at work? or shall i tell him tonight after kids are in bed.

slinkstah · 13/10/2005 13:01

shall i call, text, email, msn him ?

Trix1 · 13/10/2005 13:02

Phone him -Now

mumswish · 13/10/2005 13:05

Phone him, but make sure he's sitting down. Do it now.

Trix test!! when I was pg last time I tested at 10pm and got a definate positive!

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Diddle · 13/10/2005 13:10

call now slink, he'll be thrilled

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