I am officially postponing Christmas until after Christmas. I haven't done all the present shopping, but according to Royal Mail I've missed the last posting dates anyway (or at least will have as I can't get out shopping child-free until Sunday). Have everything for DCs thankfully, so FC will still come, but I've told everyone else they'll have to wait. Actually feel a strange sense of peace now, but am wondering if any relatives will be speaking to me again .