christmas card query? quick advice please

[blondehelen]

Just writing care to my Aunt and Uncle. My Uncle went into nursing home this year. Obviously card to both but envelope to just Aunt or both?? Might offend with just Aunt or upset with addressed to both as Aunt cared for Uncle for a long time.

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I need to write the envelope

couldn't you send them in separate envelopes?

sorry misread you r message

i thought uyou were sending 2 cards

my Dad has moved into a home this year. I sent 2 cards - one to each of them and just put one name on each envelope.

Didn't realise I should have a dilemma about it!

i think you should arddress to mr and mrs smith

sending one card because they are still a couple and seperate cards would offend!My uncle has dementia so am sending card to their home

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sorry

Then I think deffo mr and mrs smith

I would address to both.

Envelope to both. Definitely.

I think def. Mr and Mrs - if you wanted them both to have a card, I would send both cards in the same envelope:

Envelope to Mr and Mrs
Card 1 to Mr and Mrs (to stay with mrs at home)
Card 2 to Mr and Mrs (to go to Mr in nursing home)

Thank you - envelope now addressed to Mr and Mrs!