I told my ds (aged9) that santa wasn't real, cos some of the kids at school are so mean, worried he'd get no end of grief if he said he still believed to be fair, he had asked me directly if he was real or not.
H cried and said he hated growing up and wanted to be a kid again & that he was jealous of his 4 yr old brother
I haven't totted up end total.
Just been commissioned by fil to get mine a pressie as he can't think what to get.