My daughters dad on and off sees her when it works for him, set arrangement is every other weekend which seemed to work now he works 4 on 4 off so can go a few weekends with out seeing her. Now he text 3 weeks before Christmas asking what the plans are when he’s had all year to ask about i. I’m away for Christmas with my daughter and have suggested dates after I’m back but he’s kicking off saying I’m denying him access