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Alexanadra · 25/12/2023 17:31

I have been dating someone almost 2 years now. He's been stingy from the beginning and am sure he has Aspergers. He's taken me to the cinema 4 times but mostly I cook a meal on the Sunday and I go to his during the week for a meal I've shown him how to make. He goes on holidays on his own and concerts but invites me along. I have to pay everything myself . He is a maths lecturer ...in his 50's ...no children...never married.
This Xmas he gave me a roll of binbags and 2 paint brushes and some breadsticks he's been stockpiling...oh and a box of teabags. I am so upset...I always buy him thoughtful nice gifts . Once he gave me biscuits from a hotel he'd stayed in as a present ! They were also out of date !! Am I being mean expecting too much? I feel this is the last straw

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Needmorelego · 25/12/2023 17:46

That's not a relationship.
Unless he is amazing in bed (or something else amazing 😂) why are you with him?

Glitterandtinsel1 · 25/12/2023 18:14

Are you being serious? I would have chucked the bin bags at him and told him to use them to gather his stuff and get out!!

Kitkatcatflap · 26/12/2023 11:52

It sounds joyless. Where's the fun?

He gives you bin bags and teabags for Christmas. You make him a roast every Sunday, he makes you a meal YOU taught him how to cook. You're a girlfriend not an Aunt.

Do you really want another 20 years of this?

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