Dh and I have been mulling this over....DN is now 20, lives at home still, working in apprenticeship since 16 and earns good money now - has a better car than us / multiple holidays abroad this year.
She's still on the cards and tags as SIL, BIL and DN - no presents or cards from her ever. And an expectation that we will buy her expensive beauty and clothing items off her wish list as always.
When kids become adults - how and when does it stop if it's not reciprocated directly? Or is it likely DN will be on the tags of her parents still in 10yrs 🤣