i just found out that my mum is gonna be spending alot of money on my DD for this Xmas....

[MerryBiglipsmas]

but she doesnt need to!

do i tell her or leave it to her??

bit late to say anything now - unless there is something that'll keep for her next b'day.

I'd just let her do it, lots of grandparents love spending money on grandchildren.

If she wants to, let her. Hope it's something your DD wants.

Leave her to it.

ok.

Granny's always over indulge -smile graciously.don't offend her