...whether having them to stay, or buying beautiful, thoughtful gifts, and were not impressed with guest behaviour and/ or received a bunch of wilted flowers in return, what will you do next time?
It's a recurrent theme on here. 'I bought DH/ other family member something I knew they would love, spent hours researching online and so on. He/ they gave me a pack of loo roll in return'.
Yes, I know you don't give to receive and all that, but most of us are human and understandably (imo) feel hurt about stuff like this. So, what if anything will you do differently?
I gave up on one sibling, tired of her acting as though I handed her a bag of dog crap. Got her a voucher this year (I personally like getting vouchers) and that's what I will do from now on.