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Bit of an unusual one: questions needed!

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ladybee28 · 03/11/2020 12:50

My cousin's daughter is 13, and she and I have been old-fashioned pen pals since she was 9 (I live in a different country and she gets a massive kick out of receiving proper snail mail through the letterbox).

She's very quiet, introverted, thoughtful, and observant – the kind of kid you could easily forget was in the room until she interrupts your conversation with a really incisive question.

She's starting to really think about who she is and what matters to her, and so for Christmas I've got her a journal and covered it with fabrics and pictures of things she likes and collaged her name into the front.

Inside, I want to write some questions as writing prompts, or things to draw, or activities to do –so I thought I'd pop in here to crowdsource some ideas. I know there are books out there that are already a bit like this, but I wanted it to feel personal for her, so she knows she's seen.

Some questions might be a bit political, others about what matters to her, things she wants to remember...

If you were to add a prompt to her journal, what would it be?

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WitchesSpelleas · 03/11/2020 13:11

Choose an object that you can see in the room around you and write about its history and significance to you.

Write about a story that's in the news today - what are your feelings about it, how will it affect you and others?

If there were a General Election (equivalent for her country) tomorrow and you could vote, who would you vote for and why?

BigBadBox · 03/11/2020 14:06

There's a creative writing board on here which might be a good place to ask?

Pepperwand · 03/11/2020 16:05

When you feel sad or angry, what are the things that help you to feel better?

What is your happiest memory? Write about that day.

Which song lyrics mean the most to you?

What goal do you want to set for yourself for the day/week/month/year/5 years?

Research someone you would define as a real life hero and write about them.

What five small, insignificant things make your life better?

If you could know one thing about the future, what would it be?

Stompythedinosaur · 03/11/2020 22:11

What three words would you use to describe yourself?

What do you like about yourself?

What holiday would you most like to go on?

What is your greatest ambition?

If you could spend the day with any person from history, who would it be?

Rae36 · 04/11/2020 07:57

List 5 things you can see and hear around you right now

Describe what you did today

What are your favourite clothes and shoes, whose style do you admire?

What makes you feel safe?

RockingMyFiftiesNot · 05/11/2020 11:38

What is the first thing you remember?

steppemum · 05/11/2020 13:04

Oh loads of good ideas!

What do you dream about doing?

If you could be someone for one day (or shadown someone for one day) who would you choose?

if you coudl change one law what would it be?

What is the best thing about being you? What is the hardest thing?

By the way, this is such a lovely idea. Both to have a pen pal liek this, and also the personal journal.

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