I've got my mum a handbag and a book for Christmas, but down here visiting then at the moment I'm thinking I've got her what I think she could do with rather than what she'd like, which would probably be a new pointing trowel or something to clear the gutters.
Should I nip out now and get something different? I think I'm trying to get her something to make up for a part of her that's not there (anything feminine or dressy at all) rather than something wholly practical.
On the other hand she might like the bag (if she was going to like a bag, she'd like this one).