5DC here.
They all get
An electric toothbrush
Chocolate coins
A satsuma(there's complaints if I dare to forget that)
Something nice for the bath/shower.
A pair of slipper socks
Then they get between 5 and 7 other bits that are specific to what they like.
Oldest DS21 it will probably be a book,some decent leather gloves,some kind of mini game(electrical or vintage)a smelly(aftershave or body spray)a bottle of unusual ale and still looking for what else to get him,it will have to have something to do with the arts because he's an amazing artist(even though he says he's not)
DS19 it will be a decent pair of gloves and some boot warmers(because he works really hard and always comes home freezing cold),a multi tool(that looks nothing like a tool)an unusual gourmet snack/sweet and a gourmet ale,something special for his hair(he has gorgeous hair).
DS16 is really into grooming now so his will most probably contain lots of things to do with that and an unusual sweet/snack and an unusual game(electronic)and an unusual drink and still looking for more for him because he's very unique for his age and has some really great interests.
DD14 loves stationary and is gorgeous so her's will have some unusual stationary,a nice piece of jewellry,a bottle of perfume,some new nose piercings,an unusual piece or two of make-up and something to do with animals and charity because they're two of her biggest loves and she has a big heart and likes to help out others.
DD10 is asd like her big brother DS16,she also have really unique interests for her age so something really unusual to eat and drink(we got her Astronaut Ice cream last year and she loved it)she will want something she can fiddle with,something to do with space,something to do with animals,something she can makes herself that involves a bit of science.
DD10 is the one it takes me longest to buy for.