I have 3 brothers age 25-31. 2 are married, 1 single.
I spend £10 on them each at xmas (this needs to include the wives). I used to spend £25 but they seldom acknowledged or thanked even if given cash. None of them have ever given me a present although last year they did each buy something for my kids, for the first time.
So I'm really looking fir just a token item. Needs to be posted as won't see them at xmas.
Any suggestions?