I come from a dysfunctional and chaotic family. Rows would often come to a head at Christmas, with tears, people walking out and worse. As a result I really hate the 'festive' time of year. I tried to make it fun for my children when they were growing up but it was hard.
Earlier this year I cut off contact with some family members as I realised I have been scapegoated and blamed for their problems which have nothing to do with me.
So Christmas will be small this year, just two DD's, DH and me. It's sad, I'll miss my extended family, they could be fun, for the first couple of hours before the rows start.
How does anyone else who dislikes Christmas cope? How do you make this time of year fun for your family when it brings up such sad memories for you?
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