We're being hosted by MIL for Christmas dinner (yay!) and I offered to bring the Christmas pud and fizz.
I noticed year before last when we were there that SIL picked all the nuts out of hers, and apparently this is a 'thing' she does, always has.
So, I'm thinking, shall I rock up with two puds? A big one (to serve approx 8 adults) and a smaller nut free one for SIL?
Will she be charmed that I've taken her aversion to nuts in Christmas pudding into account or will she somehow take offence? (knowing my luck, she likes to pick the nuts out... O_o). I mean it IS Christmas; there's potential for etiquette horror and misunderstanding at every turn!
I suppose I could always avert that by saying, hey, I found this nut free one, but you don't have to have it?
Which leads me to my real question: do nut free christmas puds exist, and (I'm guessing they do) which is a really good one?
Thanks!