Have an agreement with another family that we stop buying for DCs at 21, both birthdays and Christmas. Theirs are older than ours so the last few years, knowing they'd still buy for ours, have bought a gift for either the family (game/pub quiz cd), wine, Christmas planter etc. normally in that situation I would buy Christmas goodies But she now works for M&S so am a bit stuck want it to bra 'substantial token gift' rather than get into adult presents per se IYKWIM. No real hobbies, don't want to do vouchers, although am considering making a voucher for a meal out with us as our guests. Beyond that am stuck. Any ideas?