Need ideas.... please help!

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Am looking for ideas for Christmas presents for DP's ex, her ds (10) and his dd (3) from me. I don't want to go mad as he has already bought presents but I do want to get a little something from me. Am so far thinking of either doing a hamper but he's told me not to go mad on sweets as they already get loads, or do I just get them all individual gifts? Any ideas would be greatly appreciated as am stumped!!

I don't understand, you want to buy your DP's ex a present?

Apart from that, aren't all presents from you / your DP essentially from both of you anyway?

Well me and his ex actually get on really well. Even go out together, well they are but he doesn't do present presents, so wanted to get something they could unwrap. if that makes sense?

This for the three year old? I have no ideas about ten year olds I'm afraid.

Would a ten yr old DS like electronic drumsticks? www.amazon.co.uk/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=electronic+drum+stick&tag=googhydr-21&index=aps&hvadid=31515668840&hvpos=1o1&hvexid=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=496765453746608182&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=b&hvdev=c&ref=pd_sl_9op3gzxbk3_b