Hi.
I spend what we can afford and also depends on what the children are after!
I never buy for the sake of buying, so once we have got what we know the children will love we stop buying.
As for spending the same? Normally I would say yes BUT there are 4 years between our children. And the younger the children are the more you seem to be able to get for your money.
My youngest has had about £90 spent on her. She is 2.
My eldest has about £140 on her. She is 6.
But they have similar amount of presents to open. Though my youngest seems to have bigger packages?!
But this is more to do with the fact her toys are all chunky, where as my eldest is into DS games, books, CDs etc as well as toys so some of her stuff is obviously a lot smaller.
So spend what you can afford without going into debt. Don't overly worry about spending the same on all. Obviously £150 say on a 12 year old would not go that far, yet £60 on a 2 year old is a lot!