Anyone else not doing xmas gifts this year?

[sneakybeak]

We have had some big bills, and need some major lifestyle adjustments to get through the next 18 months. I have always put money aside for xmas, but that has now been wiped out by unexpected problems.

DH and I have agreed that we'll buy small gifts for our DC (1&3) and that's it. No-one else. Nada.

We let all our siblings and parents know. Everyone has been fine. Fully understands our predicament. We'll contribute food and drink and have a lovely time, but I feel a huge weight off our shoulders.

Luckily the DCs are too young to understand, and we should get back on our feet before they do!

Anyone else doing the same?

The more I think about it, the more I think I will do it. It'll only be me, DH and his sister on the morning of his birthday. He'll then see grandparents for the inevitable fanfare (not being mean, but MIL does love a 'do'). He won't remember a single thing about it either...