Christian Mumsnetters, how do you find purpose and structure in retirement?

[whitefluffydog]

I need inspiration for days filling once after I retire

Hello!
I haven't retired but one thought is perhaps volunteering? Many of my retired friends do so and find value in it.

I have not retired, but I would find fulfilment in working for my church: maybe join the pastoral team to assist with the the feeding programme, or home / hospital visiting; maybe join the local hospital's League of Friends; joining the U3A? https://www.u3a.org.uk/ - there are so many things, but I guess it depends on what are your interests.

I may not be the example you are looking for. I've been retired for nearly three years. When I finished work I decided to study for an MA in theology. It got ever so slightly out of hand and I'm being ordained in a few weeks.😅

There's a book called Don't waste your life by John Piper where he describes a couple who retire early to cruise around on a boat and collect shells. He imagines them standing before God at the end and saying 'Look at my shells'. A sobering thought.
Being a trustee for a charity could be a way to use your professional skills to serve others. Being a magistrate, grassroots volunteering- driving, food bank, riding for the Disabled. Whatever floats your boat. Studying - learn a language, BSL, learn an instrument, join a band/ orchestra/ choir. Things which benefit your well-being, and cognitive ability, as well as serving others to bring glory to God. Also, some of those who have the most productive latter years are those who are stuck in who watch sermons, listen to podcasts, pray, write letters. It doesn't have to be something big and shiny to be of worth.

Maybe it's not good to rush into anything. Keep praying and keep an open mind.

I am not at voluntary age, but I do voluntary work in a hospital once a week.

There is spiritual companionship volunteer training schemes and some is online you can do online. This is an example of one. Other denominations may have other training for this available.

https://www.chelmsford.anglican.org/vocations-and-discipleship/exploring-vocations/become-a-spiritual-companion

Some church’s need people to distribute the Eucharist for people at home and there is training for that.

My mum is retired and volunteers in two church’s to help them to distribute food to those in need who visit them.

You can volunteer to at bereavement cafes if you do the training.