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DD has been poorly - which course of action is the best?

16 replies

Katymac · 17/01/2010 20:28

I have a number of options:

  1. See GP late afternoon
  2. Ring & make an earlier appointment
  3. Ring the hospital & speak to the consultant's secretary
  4. Ring the hospital & speak to the nurse practitioner
  5. Run round in circles screaming & shouting
  6. Get in touch with Bupa & see her specialist privately

This is always assuming she gets no worse this evening

Which is the most reasonable/normal action to take?

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stinkypinky · 17/01/2010 20:30

NHS24 will advise you best - you have not said what is wrong with her. Hope she is soon well.

BooHooo · 17/01/2010 20:30

What is wrong with her? What is her state now?

Katymac · 17/01/2010 20:36

Sorry - she is asthmatic, her peak flow dropped over the last 10 days while on steroids

She is on 40% of her lung capacity - & has seen paramedics last night who nearly admitted her

But she is not having an asthma attack

Even my dad (who is go to work/school half dead) says she looks awful & is offering to pay for the private

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BooHooo · 17/01/2010 20:37

I would go option 6

and DD has similar problems so I know where you're at

Katymac · 17/01/2010 20:42

Silly isn't it

all sense of proportion or rationality flees when your baby is ill (she is 12 )

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stinkypinky · 17/01/2010 20:48

Glad she is a big baby - was thinking 3 or 4. I still think a call to NHS24 is the way to go. Cannot mess with breathing, whatever the age. They are the professionals, not us, but we can hold your hand...

Katymac · 17/01/2010 20:50

Her situation hasn't changed since the paramedics saw her last night

She is no better or worse

I must do something my sheet from them instructs me to

I just don't know what is appropriate

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Katymac · 17/01/2010 21:19

DH & I have been chatting & I think we are going for the Nurse Practitioner - as Nurses are more realistic about the practicalities of life (IMO)

Sorry to have been a wuss

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Katymac · 18/01/2010 08:41

OK - changed my mind - seeing the GP at 9:20

I am so indecisive/confused

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PixieOnaLeaf · 18/01/2010 16:40

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Katymac · 18/01/2010 16:56

here

but basically she saw GP who wasn't tremendously helpful then the nurse from the hospital rang (for something else) & has taken the info to sort it out with the consultant - she agreed that it did not sound like asthma and was very very helpful

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Katymac · 18/01/2010 19:35

Option 7

Bye

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Wallace · 18/01/2010 21:36

How is your dd now? I'm hoping option 7 wasn't A&E? If so, fingers crossed

Katymac · 18/01/2010 23:53

Just got back from A&E - she has pleurisy

So lots of painkillers & she will be better by Thursday/Friday

such a relief

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Wallace · 19/01/2010 06:30

Poor thing, I've heard pleurisy is very painful.

Glad she will be on the mend

Katymac · 19/01/2010 07:51

Thanks - I was getting so worried I just knew something was wrong

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