I am taking her to the doctors tomorrow, but have been googling away and can't find anything that exactly fits her symptoms.
Friday - generally unwell and lethargic. Didn't even enjoy her day on the beach
Friday night fever of over 39 (102.2) - I say over because I took her temp before bed, but she was waaaay hotter in the night. Controlled by medication.
Saturday, tired and drowsy. no appetite, seemed a bit better than friday. By evening complaining of sore mouth. Lips appeared red and puffy (no allergy as she'd barely eaten). fever reducing.
Today, slight fever, irritable, tired, grumpy, constant whinging or crying. Saying her mouth hurts. wants to eat but then screams in pain as her mouth really hurts. It seems to be her tongue and gum above top front teeth that hurts the most. Gum looks sore, but she had bumped it and split it earlier in the week on a trampoline. Tongue bright red and bumpy (like scarlet fever pics). faint rash over legs, arms, darker rash on bum, groin and armpits - very fine pinprick rash which does fade under pressure)
bigger spots (like acne spots but without the head, on knees and side of face/mouth.
So what could it be? hand foot and mouth? but apparently with this there is no high fever, just a low fever, and she has no spots on hands or feet, and a rash everywhere else.
scarlet fever? but she has tongue (i think) pain, and it is rare in toddlers?
She is very unsettled again tonight and I am feeling terribly terribly sorry for the poor little girl. She is only 2