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Fit, skinny 9yo vomiting after exercise - exhaustion?

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SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 21/07/2026 23:36

DS9 is extremely fit, runs 5km up/ down a steep hill before breakfast each day, does 30 minute swimming lessons that are laps of a 15m pool a few times a week. Eats large amounts, about 2/3 of what his very fit Dad eats. He has ADHD and is medicated, the exercise helps with everything, particularly running before meds have kicked in for the day.

He's also below 0.4th centile for BMI (98th centile for height, 9th for weight). After swimming lessons in the last few weeks he has been pale and has vomited on a few occasions. It looks like he's reaching very low blood sugar and is exhausted.

He's already eating about as much as he can fit in, volume-wise, he absolutely hates artificial-tasting or fatty food, and he is dairy allergic so all those protein breakfast drink things don't work.

Has anyone dealt with this kind of thing and did you find a solution that worked?

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SadiraOfTyr · 21/07/2026 23:48

Exercise induced nausea is common in high intensity endurance sports such as swimming and cycling. Speak to his swim coach about how it can be managed. Ideally he should leave at least 2 hours between eating and swimming, and have some easily digestible carbs right before, and possibly during the session. Gels are ideal for this but appreciate he might not like them if he doesn’t like artificial tasting foods. Dried fruit, haribos, jelly babies are also good.

AllTheChicken · 21/07/2026 23:51

Is it only after swimming? I understand you day the exercise helps his ADHD but that's an awful lot for a 9 year old to be doing, especially running fasted each morning. Does he do this off his own back or do you encourage it for ADHD management?

I would suggest seeing the dr to get this checked out. If it's only after swimming could it be the pool is dirty or he's swallowing too much water? Does he swim very vigorously?

SakuraTea · 21/07/2026 23:53

I'd get him to the Dr

SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 22/07/2026 07:28

Thanks all. I'll try dried fruit, haribos and jelly babies and see if that makes a difference.

Dr is useless, hospital system is broken (where we are makes the NHS look very very functional).

I agree it's quite a lot for a 9 year old but in the hour or so before meds kick in, he can't eat (sensory issues) and can't function at all (think chimpanzee on acid) so getting him moving, out of the house, is the only workable solution. And he loves running and swimming, and is far too dyspraxic to do any other form of sport.

I think the going pale and vomiting is an exhaustion thing because he's got like this once or twice when just exhausted (i.e. with not so much exercise), and swimming happens at the end of the day. The pool isn't dirty and he's not swallowing water as far as I know (I go swimming with him from time to time so I'd probably know if he had particularly bad technique).

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HushTheNoise · 22/07/2026 07:36

I think it would be harder to get exhausted in a 15 m pool, that's tiny so you are touching the ends very frequently to get a brief rest. It's probably more about swallowing water or timing of eating. Would he eat some nuts beforehand to help?

SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 22/07/2026 07:47

I can certainly give it a go...

I should also have said his metabolism is through the roof. 3 large meals a day, frequent large snacks, he's permanently really hot. The ADHD meds get metabolised extremely quickly (one is supposed to last about 12 hours, it lasts 3, the others are supposed to last about 6 hours, and last 2). He weighs 25kg and is skin and bone. Which makes me think... thyroid? I probably should've thought about that before.

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LittleMonks11 · 22/07/2026 09:07

I’m thinking thyroid. I got quite ill and lost lots of weight before being diagnosed with Thyrotoxicosis. Felt sick and shaky, sweating and generally unwell. Graves Disease later.

olympicsrock · 22/07/2026 10:35

You are letting him exercise too much compared to the amount he is eating especially if he is exercising starved . I would put a stop to this.

His dislike of certain food types ‘fatty food’ makes me think of an eating disorder and something called Red S .

Some of his mood and hyperactivity issues could be related to the metabolic changes rather than ADHD .

RED-S (Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport):
RED-S occurs when there is low energy availability—the body doesn’t get enough calories to support both exercise and normal functions. It can affect both females and males.
Symptoms and effects can include:

  • Fatigue and reduced athletic performance
  • Increased risk of stress fractures and other injuries
  • Menstrual irregularities or absent periods (in females)
  • Reduced testosterone (in males)
  • Poor concentration and low mood
  • Frequent illness due to impaired immunity
  • Reduced bone density
It is treated by increasing energy intake, reducing training load if necessary, and addressing any underlying eating disorder or nutritional issues, often with support from a sports physician and dietitian.
Gonnaeatalotofpeaches · 23/07/2026 15:29

I don’t have any advice but I am similarly very slim like your son with a fast metabolism. As an adult who’s has two children my bmi is still below 18 I also feel very shaky and faint after intense exercise and have been known to feel nauseous/ vomit.
I think it’s just a case of our bodies have no reserves so once the body has used all the energy available from food it has nothing left to take and you end up feeling depleted.
Sweets often make it feel worse for me but carbs like crisps, crackers or toast helps although not very nutritious.

SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 26/07/2026 05:18

Thanks @Gonnaeatalotofpeaches @LittleMonks11 I think both of those are quite likely. Thanks also @olympicsrock - this sounds like it could be a factor, secondary to what @Gonnaeatalotofpeaches and @LittleMonks11 are talking about. I've taken it on board and am trying to cram more calories and protein in where possible, though I think we really need to address the issue of metabolism first - which may or may not be something that can be solved.

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SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 26/07/2026 05:26

@olympicsrock I think less eating disorder, more ARFID-like sensory issues around food. He can only eat when medicated, i.e. when meds have taken the edge off the difficulties inherent in tasting, chewing, swallowing etc. Which is also why he's going running before breakfast, trying to eat breakfast within about an hour of taking meds will just make him gag.

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dizzydizzydizzy · 26/07/2026 06:24

SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 22/07/2026 07:47

I can certainly give it a go...

I should also have said his metabolism is through the roof. 3 large meals a day, frequent large snacks, he's permanently really hot. The ADHD meds get metabolised extremely quickly (one is supposed to last about 12 hours, it lasts 3, the others are supposed to last about 6 hours, and last 2). He weighs 25kg and is skin and bone. Which makes me think... thyroid? I probably should've thought about that before.

Regarding the ADHD meds, that is normal. My ADHD psychiatrist told me about that before I started taking them. I’m late 50s and have a normal metabolism and have experienced exactly the same thing with the meds.

SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 26/07/2026 06:36

@dizzydizzydizzy He was like that before the meds! They have made it worse but he's always been a fast metabolizer.

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concertinacornflake · 26/07/2026 06:42

I'd want them checked, the exercise sounds too much.
Can your DH not do something less intense with them? Running up a steep hill in summer when very low weight would sound unhealthy.

Holdonforsummer · 26/07/2026 06:47

Get him tested for type 1 diabetes.

ReluctantSwimMum · 26/07/2026 06:56

A 30 mins swimming lesson in a small pool is not overdoing it for a child that age.

Mine was swimming in 1 hour sessions a couple of times a week age 9, then a year later into swimming squads with 2 hour sessions a few times a week. Totally fine and fit.

So in conclusion I would look for another cause, not exhaustion as such. Look at nutritional balance. Return to GP for more tests.

concertinacornflake · 26/07/2026 07:00

ReluctantSwimMum · 26/07/2026 06:56

A 30 mins swimming lesson in a small pool is not overdoing it for a child that age.

Mine was swimming in 1 hour sessions a couple of times a week age 9, then a year later into swimming squads with 2 hour sessions a few times a week. Totally fine and fit.

So in conclusion I would look for another cause, not exhaustion as such. Look at nutritional balance. Return to GP for more tests.

It might be too much on top of everything else.

The amount of exercise is unusual, especially given the the weight is so very low.

I think the GP needs to be involved and yes more tests.

shellyleppard · 26/07/2026 07:01

Op I would get his thyroid checked out. A lot of the symptoms sounds very very similar to overactive thyroid.

Waryandwearyfactorten · 26/07/2026 07:06

I have no medical knowledge whatsoever Op so please don’t be alarmed by what I am about to suggest, because it’s probably not this, but just for peace of mind I would suggest getting your ds a cardiac assessment, as my brother displayed similar symptoms as a child and it turned out he had a congenital heart issue that wasn’t discovered until well in to adulthood.

olympicsrock · 26/07/2026 07:07

It’s not the swimming per se that is too much, it’s the fact that he doesn’t have energy reserves so bonks .

I think you need to turn the morning run into a walk if it feels the need to move as it is not helping his body mass . He does need urgently to gain some weight .

I would also get him on the waiting list for camhs - as they is likely to be a year plus wit and can be cancelled if not needed . Whilst the swallowing and chewing difficulties may just be neurodiversity they may not .

BeachgSunrise · 26/07/2026 07:07

Check BP as well.

my DH is like this and both my kids have ADHD diagnosis so really get the need for exercise & struggling to eat in the morning. I don’t think it’s excessive exercise some bodies just Need to move more to release the hormones to regulate but I’d definitely get some kind of health mot to rule out thyroid issues, low bp, diabetes.

BeachgSunrise · 26/07/2026 07:09

Have you tried fortified foods? Shake or running fuels my DH uses a carb drink on long runs. He’s a low bmi eats one main meal a day in evening, sees food as “fuel” not something he enjoys, and runs ultras (definitely ND suspect AuDHD like our DD).

Morechocmorechoc · 26/07/2026 07:16

Request full blood panel. Weight should not be that far below height on centiles.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 26/07/2026 07:44

Is he taking his meds with food? All of them work best if taken with protein rich foods - which means that should he wake, eat, take his meds - he should NOT be exercising in the hour that he is waiting for the to kick in? Nausea is a common side effect of taking ADHD meds on an empty stomach (I and DC experience both if we do not eat at the same time). That nausea can tip into vomiting if we do exercise/get stressed etc - and will definitely happen if immediately exercise upon eating/taking meds.

I think you may need to rethink the eat/meds/exercise schedule?

dizzydizzydizzy · 26/07/2026 07:44

SoTiredSoTiredSoTired · 26/07/2026 06:36

@dizzydizzydizzy He was like that before the meds! They have made it worse but he's always been a fast metabolizer.

I’m not sure if you understand….. whatever your metabolism, ADHD meds wear off ridiculously fast. So mine supposedly last 10 or 12 hours but actually it is 3 hour 50 minutes for me. What you are reporting for your DS’ medication is exactly what I would assume would happen with anyone regardless of metabolism (caveat, I have no medical training. I am basing this on what my psychiatrist told me and my young adult DC2. It could of course different for your DS for some reason).

I hope you find a solution for the vomiting. That sounds awful.