ENT are insisting they cannot. Ds's ear has been discharging pus and blood for a month and he seems in a great deal of pain. He has asd and is non verbal but it is obvious from his behaviour, he hurts. They are trying to treat the infection but are telling us any pain he is in, is not due to the infection or to do with ENT generally. This is the 4th infection since March and he has appeared in a lot of pain with each of them for 3-4 weeks. Has had grommets previously but none at the moment.