6 year old is normally totally fine with all things toileting although he does tend to leave having a wee til he is desperate. Today I have found very soiled pants in the washing basket and asked him about it. He wouldn't say much but in the end it turns out that he had pooed in his pants and then emptied it out into the toilet-yuck. This now makes sense as I caught him yesterday after just coming out of a very smelly toilet (we were out) and he looked very flustered. He admitted to doing the same thing the day before when I caught him looking like he needed a poo. we were at home but I had a friend here. He now admits to pooing in his pants then too. I have been very cross and disgusted with him as a result. He hasn't done it today but I think only because I caught him standing rigid and made him go to the toilet and show me after. He did a normal looking poo but Im convinced he'd have done it again if I hadn't spotted him! I feel I need to nip this in the bud and watch him like a hawk and am convinced it's not a medical issue. Do you think I'm being too harsh?!