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Disappointed by the choice of books in my son’s reception class

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dominose · 15/09/2026 09:58

I am absolutely despairing at the first two books my son has brought home from reception.

These in my opinion are absolute slop.

There are hundreds of wonderful, beautiful, interesting, smart books for children, for all abilities and interests!

Why would a TEACHER of children choose these books to have in the classroom? I don't understand it.

It's not about length or ease of reading, these are not particularly short books. They are just idiotic. Totally uninspiring.

This is a topic that gets me incandescent with rage.

I'm just venting, and would love a fellow venter!

Disappointed by the choice of books in my son’s reception class
Disappointed by the choice of books in my son’s reception class
OP posts:
Frenemies · 16/09/2026 07:54

EasternStandard · 16/09/2026 07:04

I can’t stand the Elephant one by Walliams. A rip off at the start and the wrong message, plus ‘silly boy’ stuff.

The other bad set is the Santa or whoever pooing everywhere.

Absolutely agree! We had a large number of Walliams books passed down to us by a relative… they quickly found their way to a charity shop. And I can’t bear toilet humour, like many primary-aged boys my son thinks it is the height of sophisticated wit, but I don’t want to encourage him with the books we have in the house! 😂

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 16/09/2026 08:14

@BadSkiingMum The books don’t have to find their way into school libraries though. We had a parent volunteer helping with the library and when a school works with the pta, you can get much better quality. The rubbish is sifted out.

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 16/09/2026 08:19

Maybe you could buy some books for the classroom op?
I bought some books every year for the school while my children were there. And also donated any duplicate books we were gifted.

Or ask if you can set up an Amazon wishlist so lots of parents can donate

I agree it's hugely frustrating when the books are just junk. There are so many excellent books. But also so many terrible ones. I would expect someone in a school to take control of the book quality, and teachers to speak up if they were dire

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 16/09/2026 08:21

BoleynMemories13 · 16/09/2026 06:46

It might be considered 'usual' vocabulary now by many, but when we were growing up many parents chose not to use it in their household. Whilst most do seemingly now use it freely with their young children, some still choose not to and, as a teacher, I choose to respect that by not using the word in school.

Agree, we would definitely never have said fart at home! (But then we said lavatory and I didn't actually know what "toilet" meant till I was 7 Blush)

BadSkiingMum · 16/09/2026 09:48

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 16/09/2026 08:14

@BadSkiingMum The books don’t have to find their way into school libraries though. We had a parent volunteer helping with the library and when a school works with the pta, you can get much better quality. The rubbish is sifted out.

That’s great where it happens but it doesn’t happen everywhere.

The school where I was working at the time was in a disadvantaged area where unemployment was high, many of the parents had very limited education themselves (quite a few of the parents in my class had been teenage mums who hadn’t completed their own schooling), there was no PTA (a handful of very hardy parents formed one a few years later but fundraising was almost impossible because no one had any money) and parent volunteering just wasn’t a thing because parents were too busy with their own struggles.

It was a hard place to teach!

Rocketpants50 · 16/09/2026 10:45

When mine were in primary school I realised that I hated the whole sweet thing on birthdays - it took me quite a few years to realise this and do anything about it but for the last few years I sent in a book for the class instead and got my chid to write a message. Not sure if anyone joined in but the class got a few nice books out of it.

SharkyBait · 16/09/2026 10:55

Teachers don’t choose the books. They inherit books that already exist in the school, or they are given books that are donated to the school, or bought by the school. I taught for 11 years and never got to curate the classroom books once in that time. Many were falling to pieces and were ancient but the kids didn’t care. And I’m sorry…but even in schools that do have a wide range of books ranging from the classics down to the rainbow fairies tripe, the kids more often than not chose the tripe over the classics. The key to passionate readers is allowing them to enjoy books of their choosing regardless of whether you approve of them or not.

Scarydinosaurs · 18/09/2026 07:35

I’m with you, OP. I would rather there was some quality control with the books on offer. Lots of great children’s books and lots of really crap ones. Schools need better budgets for books, and funding for librarians.

JustTryingToBeMe · 18/09/2026 07:39

dominose · 15/09/2026 10:20

I have lots of lovely books at home for them, but you kind of hope they go to school and get inspired or have access to an even greater library.

Of course there's no harm done. It's just disappointing.

There is harm done though; “good” books expand a child’s word bank and expose them to thoughts and ideas which make them assess the world around them.
Modern books do not stretch children’s reading skills in the same ways as books from previous generations. Today it is all about pretty pictures and silly stories that are easy to read. I used to read the books from school because we had to but once they were free readers we read books from the library and ones we had at home.
If your child is a good reader the most important thing is to stretch and challenge them but in an age appropriate way.

Ooohaaahjustalittlebit · 18/09/2026 07:46

Rocketpants50 · 16/09/2026 10:45

When mine were in primary school I realised that I hated the whole sweet thing on birthdays - it took me quite a few years to realise this and do anything about it but for the last few years I sent in a book for the class instead and got my chid to write a message. Not sure if anyone joined in but the class got a few nice books out of it.

Birthday book for the class is a lovely idea. I gave books at Christmas and the end of the year.

Our school stopped the sweets /cakes on birthdays as they realised if wasn't sensible when so many children have allergies

Funnywonder · 18/09/2026 07:49

Just wait until he’s older and he doesn’t give a toss about reading. OK I know that doesn’t always happen, but neither of mine read much, even though both DP and I were avid readers. I still am, DP not so much these days. The thing is, DS1 is extremely talented at creative writing. It was something drawn to my attention the whole way through primary and secondary school. But he barely reads. Just the odd original book of a film he likes. If our children didn’t look so much like us, I’d think they were swapped in the hospital😅

Jan24680 · 18/09/2026 08:09

A lot of children's books I've seen in the library are slop as you put it. In-laws are particularly good at buying them for our toddler as well. Picture books were you can't read the writing because it doesn't contrast with the background. Boring stories, set out badly etc. it seems like anything will get published.

dominose · 18/09/2026 09:08

JustTryingToBeMe · 18/09/2026 07:39

There is harm done though; “good” books expand a child’s word bank and expose them to thoughts and ideas which make them assess the world around them.
Modern books do not stretch children’s reading skills in the same ways as books from previous generations. Today it is all about pretty pictures and silly stories that are easy to read. I used to read the books from school because we had to but once they were free readers we read books from the library and ones we had at home.
If your child is a good reader the most important thing is to stretch and challenge them but in an age appropriate way.

Edited

Well, I obviously totally agree with you, I was trying to be diplomatic 😆 I actually do think there's harm done and it makes me terribly sad

OP posts:
MeetMeOnTheCorner · 18/09/2026 18:06

@dominose It’s purely because the school doesn’t have a central library area. If they did there would be a larger variety of books. Maybe it’s an issue that’s not addressed in teacher training? I’ve no idea why schools cannot choose decent books - ours did. It’s not that difficult. It’s about being willing.

BoleynMemories13 · 22/09/2026 06:11

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 18/09/2026 18:06

@dominose It’s purely because the school doesn’t have a central library area. If they did there would be a larger variety of books. Maybe it’s an issue that’s not addressed in teacher training? I’ve no idea why schools cannot choose decent books - ours did. It’s not that difficult. It’s about being willing.

As already addressed in this thread, schools are massively underfunded. Schools do have good quality texts available to the children, but they are used as key texts and to fill classroom book corners, so they get a diet of high quality literature when they are actually in school. Sadly, a lot of schools can't afford for their better quality texts to leave the premises, as so many families lose them, damage them, or don't return them. That means that many school libraries consist of donated books or cheaply sourced books (from charity shops, Vinted bundles and car boots), which naturally might not be of as high quality as the texts which all schools will carefully source to use for their class readers and key texts.

So schools do carefully curate a list of texts for each year group, but they can't afford to offer them out in the school library.

For those children who are lucky to have a rich diet of high quality literature at home, as well as in their classroom, the school library books serve purely for enjoyment and to add some variety to their reading diet. Reading for pleasure comes in all forms. People of all ages enjoy an easy, 'trashier' read from time to time.

For those children who sadly do not have books at home, well any book to borrow is better than no book. I often find these families are the ones less likely to return the books. Maybe it's because they don't value reading at home, and don't look after them? Maybe they end up under the sofa or the bed, never to be seen again? Or maybe, just maybe, some children are choosing to keep them because they don't have any books of their own and they get pleasure from this secret stash they choose to keep at home. If that's the case, those 'low quality', 'trashy' texts may just one day turn a child who is not from a bookish family, into an adult who chooses to buy their own books for themselves and their own future children, because those school library books helped foster a love of reading.

As I've already mentioned in this thread, I choose to buy bundles of books to supplement our school library supply and try to keep it as good quality as possible (but I value variety too, so I pick up all sorts of bundles as long as they are in good condition). I accept that some of these books may only be borrowed once, never to return, but I'm ok with that for reasons outlined above.

Maybe some of the teachers at the school you talk about did the same? Have you ever considered that those books your child borrowed may have been funded by their teacher, rather than the school? In cases where this happens, that's a want on the teacher's part. They want to be able to provide better books for the children in their care, and they are lucky to be able to afford to do so. It shouldn't be an expectation, so schools where staff can't afford to do this or choose not to absolutely don't deserve some of the stick they are receiving on this thread. Some teachers will go above and beyond for the children they teach, but they absolutely shouldn't have to. It's a crying shame how underfunded our schools are, and it's something so many are still seemingly completely unaware of, if some of the comments on this thread are anything to go by.

LetMeGoogleThat · 22/09/2026 10:20

Oh, you're going to love Biff, Chip and that sodding magic key then 😂

Jan24680 · 22/09/2026 10:25

LetMeGoogleThat · 22/09/2026 10:20

Oh, you're going to love Biff, Chip and that sodding magic key then 😂

I still hate them 36 years on. I was hoping that they had moved on and I wouldn't have to help my sons memorise that.

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