She doesn't mind on Fridays, but she phoned today to ask if she could drop off a present for DS. It was two caterpillars with instructions and food so he can watch them turn into butterflies and release them! She's a gem of a woman, caring, flexible, calm, wise and very generous. Sadly now her own kids are grown up she's selling up to travel and volunteer abroad. I'm pleased for her but secretly hope she'll change her mind because I'm pregnant and she's one of the few people I could envisage happily leaving a baby with. A credit to your profession