I asked her today if she wouldnt mind jotting a few lines down incase ofsted do make a visit...she said ofcourse and when she picked up her LO tonight handed me a full page of lovely words about me ..how she sees me more as family, how shes noticed how affectionate i am with the other children as well as her own and listing the things her LO brings home (which TBH i hadnt even thought much about but obv means a lot to them), how she trusts me implicitly and was so lucky to find me....sob