DD started with cm last week - but I've known CM about 8 yrs as she's a neighbour. We were planning to pay early with nursery vouchers via employer. long story short, I've moved jobs, this not an option any more, I need to pay her now, she has worked it out for a month worth mid sept to mid oct.
BUT, now here is the sticky bit where I need etiquette advice please.
Being in tricky spot where I don't know what I am going to get paid and from where, I started new job last week and the previous week would be unpaid leave, but the first week of the month would have been paid from my old job.
I was wondering whether it would be acceptable or not to ask cm if I can pay her now to the end of sept, and then pay the whole of oct on 1st of the month, as afaik that's when the new employer's paying me (have I lost you yet?)
If you followed that, many thanks, any advice for me?