dd wrote her a card and thought of/wrote the message herself.
I ordered a bunch of flowers to be delivered with a thank-you message
but now I'm wondering if that's ok. should I have got her a more personal gift from dd
would you be upset not getting a gift from the mindee? should I have got her a card from myself as well?
argh - I do want her to know that she has been special to us and we will miss her but am a bit skint at the minute
thoughts please