Ok im going out this eve with my 2 eldest dds,aupair babysitting youngest age 2yrs. She had weeks notice(well 3 wks actually but she forgot so reminded her lastwk)She just asked me if she could invite "the guys" over while im out.I said no as never met them and dont particularly want strange young men in my house.She met one of them of an internet site music group and has been out with him and his mates about 4 times.
She is a bit sulky now and im worried that as im out she could invite them over anyway.
She is a nice girl but only with us til my longterm girl comes over in ten days time,she started working with us 22nd feb.