new mum messing visits around shu i take her on

[missymoo2411]

hi im going to visit a new mindee today this will be the 4th time have arranged so i decided to do 1st visit there (home) normally i would only give 2 chances then say forget it but im loosing my old mindee next week and need to fill her place she sounds a nice person and has had real personel problems so shud i give her this chance or dont touch with a barge ploe

The 'real personal problems' might put me off, depends totally on what they are (if they are the parent's problems/the kid's!)... depends what you think you can handle and how much you need this mindee.

How about doing a settling in period... if it isn't working, it isn't working...?

have being and she seems fine have offered a settling in peroid always do between 2 n 4 weeks

That's great, fabulous news!!!

thanx penni she is comming here in the next hour so she might decide to do contracts

she was 2 hours late blah....ive now had another phone call about a little girl 2 half ive met her and she is lovely laid back mum not fussing around everything so thinking shud take her as she will fit in with my family better

If contracts have yet to be signed... take the new child.