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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

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Would you have your hair cut while your mindee is asleep?

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chloemegjess · 23/12/2008 11:11

May sound rediculous but I have taken on some very last min childcare, looking after a little girl, 1 year old last min (litterally was here within 20 mins of orginal phone call). I have been desperate to get my hair cut and have somebody who can do it today at my house. I know that I can probably tie it in with her Nap, so she wouldn't know anything about it, or at the very worst, get DH to take them (Have a DD same age) for a walk while I have it done.

DO you think this is ok? Worried as the parent might be annoyed? Should I tell her first?

I was doing her a big favour by taking on her DD at such short notice which is why I couldn't go to a normal hair dresser.

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Picante · 23/12/2008 11:12

I'd tell her first, but I really can't see any problem.

ChristmasFairySantAsSLut · 23/12/2008 11:13

hmm..considering that this was a last minute arrangement, I think it would be fine....however, might be worth just mentioning it and explaining to the parent...but I can't see how the parent would be able to make a fuss about it, if you do them a favour!

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chloemegjess · 23/12/2008 11:16

My husband is a registered assistant by the way, not sending children off to random people! Lol

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HSMM · 23/12/2008 11:46

I would tell the parent. I have taken my regular mindees to the hairdressers with me before. Their parents knew. We preceded the visit with a trip to the library to get them books to read. Everyone was fine about it. It's a real life experiences, isn't it? (Depends on the kids)

JenniPenni · 23/12/2008 12:01

My kids come with me to the doc for basic checkups etc. as long as the parent knows then it's fine

TheOtherMaryPoppinsJingles · 23/12/2008 14:02

I'd just ring and ask, I would think as it was a last minute thing they wouldn't mind. Or as your hubby is an assistant then that's fine isn't it? Just like taking lunch break?

Coldtits · 23/12/2008 14:03

As your husband is registered assistant, surely this is fine? Sure, let her know, but I wouldn't have a problem with you doing this.

Coldtits · 23/12/2008 14:04

And it's a very normal thing to do, very 'Homey' which is usually why peole favour child minders.

christmascliff · 23/12/2008 14:31

Mine goes and collects avon brochures with her minder - certainly wouldn't mind a haircut !!
Very jealous as can't get mine done though

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chloemegjess · 23/12/2008 16:04

Got it done. Hairdresser said loads of CM do it and they all worry it is a bit cheeky to get paid and have hair done!

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Blondeshavemorefun · 23/12/2008 17:40

dont see the prob personally

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