a night of D&V for me. i feel grim - back is sore from top to tail
i texted my families at 10.45 last night apologising and saying I had to cancel because I was ill and I would have phoned if I had known if they were still awake.
by 7am one mum had replied. from 7.10 my DH started calling the others. got through to one, left 2 others messages.
one rings back at 7.35 and BLASTS me for cancelling. saying as a childminder i should know that i have a duty to provide back up care in cases like this, and while she is sorry i am ill it has put her in a predicament and if she stays off work she will lose her job.
that was a voicemail message she left. so i rang back only to be met by another barrage of abuse. i said i will have to put the phone down if you talk like that to me. i hung up. another call followed. another barrage of abuse and once again i hung up. she sent text saying I was being disrespectful and wanted an apology within the hour.
WTF???????????????????????????
i sent her text saying minder X maybe able to help and if she does not have the number to let me know. text back later saying I must please let her know tonight if I can take her child tomorrow.
i had a CM for my son for about a year. i would NEVER have talked to her like that. This mum has been with me for over a year!!!!!
i feel really crap today. and now i feel that i must work tomorrow. but i am so sore and feeling really awful.
sorry, everyone, me me me me me