Wednesday staffroom

[mumsanutter]

Morning ladies, THe tulip/mumsanutter househol is brill this am , been up every 2 hours with ds4 and ds3 has a temp, so going to try to pop to the doctors today. No minded during the day, poor little mite has chicken pox and is covered

Hope that everone else had a better night, and have a good day.

Turns on the light, gets out the cereals, croissants and puts on the strong coffee - help yourself

Ok, dh is away for the next couple of nights so I WILL sort out some of my paperwork and things that are currently in a plastic bag behind the printer I keep saying it but it never gets me anywhere!! I just feel really disillusioned with it all at the moment and not sure where to start or what to do!

Cakes came out great so will be sharing them with some other cm's tomorrow. DD was the guinea pig and she seemed to think they were ok

Sorry not had time to post to everyone individually just popped in now mindees gone but going to do dd's reading homework now!

Evening everyone..what a crap day, even though i had two lovely little ones, i had all that hassle with other mindee biting..his mum didnt have her phone on all day so at pick up tonight,knew nothing about it!..she went MAD with him, she thinks she knows were the violence is stemming from (exp who think hitting/fiting/rude songs are great to teach 4 yr old)felt really sorry for mum, ive told her i will support whatever she is trying to do to stop it and turn it around and she was really grateful as exp and his family totally dont help and go against all the hard work she puts in..i felt awful as her LO is normally quite palcid here, but then he leant into playroom and smacked (same) mindee in face
Mum hit the roof he protested he hadnt hit her, we couldnt see mindee as she was in playroom and we were in hall, he leaned in through dorrway, but she was holding face and had big red mark on it
Mum was very strong even though i know she prob felt helpless and canceeled 'treats' he was looking forward to this weekend..he then started crying/moaning saying he wanted x, y and z, bascally seeing what he 'could' still get out of her, but she put her foot down and said no to everything all but food when he said he was hungry!..just wish her ex family would respect her wishes more and understand SHE is the one bringing him up, looking after him 24/7 and as to deal with EVERYTHING not just fun weekends
will see what tomorrow brings!

spoke to mindee who was bit at home time as well, i slipped up and said his name,even though i had said 'child' in incident report and diary, but she would have worked it out anyway plus her dd kept saying "x,..finger..cry" !
anyway, explained what ahppend, what id done and what i was now going to do to prevent it happening again and she actually thanked me for all id done and said she prob had all this to come with her dd..she has so much on plate at min as well, so glad she was ok..offered to ahve mindee for few hours 'favour' next week as she having few probs at min and her dd is like family so felt better knowing i could help out ahving just told her, her dd had been bit!

well, ill be keeping them at separate sides of house tomorrow! and WILL NOT let it happen again!

Thanks for advice sammy and everyone..felt really ill over it so helped to know i could chat about it